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Hi there just needed some friendly Dads advice from the Dads of all categories, I would deeply and greatly appreciate any time you all take to comment or reply, Cheers So to start off basically my problem is not feeling good enough for fatherhood or feeling like I won't be able to provide for my baby girl when she arrives in September, now also may I add, I do have a step son with my current wife, he is 7 going on 8 and I try my absolute best with him, I buy him everything he wants or needs for school, video games, stuffies, I make him feel included even on my wife's and I anniversary celebrations, I play video games with him, I talk to him about school, the things he loves and doesn't, he calls me Dada I also know when he needs to be told something he is doing isn't right, and I always do it in a way that is calm and gentle, I take him to the park when I can or for a scooter g, which he loves by the way, that and a combination of Fortnite, Roblox, and weird YouTube videos Hahaha his father doesn't pay much attention to him so I try to be the best step father I can, so I like to think I do my best with him but I could be wrong here, please correct me if you think what I am doing is maybe not right or something I'm not sure, I'm new to this Dad thing, but my whole life have been nothing but excited to have a child of my own, but for some reason I can't shake this feeling of feeling like I'm not gonna be the Dad they deserve, that my job won't be good enough to get my kids the things they deserve, or take them places I wanna make memories for us in, or that maybe my wife might be be disappointed in me for not being better equipped financially for being a Daddy, but she always tells me I'm an amazing father and that I take the best care of them and that I make my step son feel like he finally has a Dad to connect with and bond with, so iunno what do you guys think? Am I just stupid and crazy maybe haha 😂 anyways, stay safe everyone, Peace n Love to you all
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