My son is 23 years old, 6’4”, HWP, blonde hair, blue eyes, good looking kid. He briefly had a gf his sophomore year in HS and to my knowledge hasn’t dated since. My wife and I have both let it be known that if he’s gay, that’s totally cool. That would not bother us one bit. He is extremely shy around girls. I’ve seen on two occasions where there were girls very obviously interested and he was completely oblivious. He had no idea they were giving him hints. I never said anything because I didn’t want to embarrass him. We are going on a vacation next week and he will be with us. My wife and I have a room and he is sharing a room with his brother who is 21 and has a long term GF. This vacation has singles mixers, lgbtq mixers, and he will have ample opportunities for privacy should he need it. He gets very uncomfortable and awkward talking about girls, or boys (he’s said he’s not gay) but how do I encourage him to put himself out there a little on this trip? I would bet he’s never kissed anyone and he’s 23. I don’t want to pressure him, but I do think he needs a little encouragement. In my mind this vacation is the perfect opportunity for him to put himself out there and try to talk to someone. He will never see them again so if he completely strikes out, nobody at home will know and he will never see that person(s) again. Any ideas how, or if I should suggest maybe taking a chance on this vacation?