When we got started in the lifestyle, one of the hardest things -- aside watching my beautiful wife fucking another man for the first time -- was figuring out where we could partake in the lifestyle. We quickly learned about various websites. For Southern California, Kasidie.com is hands down the best source for parties, clubs and events. If you are on Kasidie, look us up; our username is Incredible.

And, now, watching my wife is super hot, especially when I am playing with the other woman, when we're with a couple. My wife and I frequently make eye contact and caress or if we are close enough, kiss each other while we are each fucking with our playmates. Super hot. That's why we are DTF.