I love women who are everything I'm not: super comfortable with sex, sexually confident and assertive, sexually experienced. Women who can make up for the fact that I don't know what I'm doing. Women who know what they like sexually and are willing to go get it without worrying about whether that makes them a slut or whatever. I like sluts, sluts are awesome.

Given my total lack of experience, I don't really know how anything works, so I'm not really down with women who are all "what would you do to me?" because frankly I have no idea, and honestly I find sex super intimidating - a problem which gets worse as I get older because my experience level and expected experience level differ more and more. Plus I'd last, like, half a second, and nobody wants that.

There was this friend of mine I was super into, and she decided to brag about how well-endowed her husband was, and how good he was in bed, and it got her so turned on she had to go fuck him posthaste. Which she told me before leaving. And it was hot. She's a model, she's done nude work, so it was a rather vivid visual, and it's just the sort of casual, cavalier attitude towards sex that I like. And maybe it's a bit of a chicken and egg thing, even. But women talking about their sexual experiences, and big cocks, and how good they make them feel...super hot. Even though I'm not big myself, so it's a little weird I guess?

I'm very much still trying to figure myself out, which again goes back to a preference for assertive, take-charge women, who can help explore and perhaps even push my boundaries a little.

Things that have come up in past chats that I've found kinda hot: I generally prefer Reddit Chat to DMs. I know I'm in the minority there but y'all are weird.