Thought I would update this as a storage place for some of my dirty musings NOS as I build my DPP profile.

I don't have many hard and fast rules, haven't found my preferred style, I tend to lean in to what is working for a partner. Always happy to chat. Life gets busy and sometimes I like to try for more in depth role plays but other times I'm not sure I can build up to it. I've had a few amazing long term partners when the stars aligned. I'll try to tell you if we need to pause and dislike ghosting in all forms.

In addition to roleplays I have a huge fetish for chatting about your fantasies and slutty escapades. Enjoy a back and forth about your sexual history if telling it gets you off.

Often when I reply to posts I'm more attracted to personality, character dynamics and sexual dynamics, and at times the construct of the role play becomes burdensome. There are certainly situations and kinks I find appealing, and I'm open to discussing things with a fun partner. There's a couple posts with general kinks and a few fairly generic prompts in my history that I'll work on updating. Things that entice me more than average include: some playful domination and taking control, rough sex with potential for spanking, hair pulling, plenty of dirty talk and name calling, incorporating toys (includes and especially you, the reader, using a real toy on your real self while we play), teasing and edging, orgasm control, *lingerie and outfits*, clothed sex, cum play, risky situations/public sex, quick/dirty/spontaneous sex.

Kinklist: https://i.imgur.com/6kjBRSc.png

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Some ideas, or types, that I have become interested in are the *verbal exhibitionist* and the *sassy submissive slut*. First, perhaps we should define terms. Thank you in advance for reading this novella (if you end up doing so)

The verbal exhibitionist is a certain type of girl who enjoys the telling of/reliving of her sexual exploits, in this case to an anonymous/semi-anonymous stranger. I have had delightful interactions with a variety of types. At times I've either posted a list of questions (borrowed from a subreddit) that worked as a starting point. I've found there are plenty of lovely ladies who actively enjoy this, and start to get off by doing so. I have a couple of stories, which I'll save at the bottom for those interested (*).

The sassy submissive slut. I usually find this type organically, through discussions above. Once we collectively figure out that the verbal exhibitionist has a submissive side, things can progress organically into a bit of dom/sub sexting fun. Slut is used here in a playful and non-judgmental sense, as I find there's a type that quite enjoys the term. It's no particular secret that many lovely ladies (including posts here) enjoy being submissive. The sassy, and/or aggressively submissive (to borrow a term recently learned, hat-tip u/starrie) is just the type that's a little more fun to play with than the average. I find it's often a bit of intellect and a je ne sais quoi that sets them apart. Not to toot my own horn, but when I've found the right partner and we have a good connection I've proven to be quite adept at teasing and edging up to delightful orgasms. Finding this good connection has proved to be the holy grail, hard to properly tease out but when it happens it is lovely.

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*Stories, in brief, as promised

- The first time I think I realized the mutual fun of what I now call verbal exhibitionism was many years ago. I dabbled in tinder, mostly for attempts at dirty chatting before I found DPP. I would basically ask abrupt questions about sexual experiences with a <5% response rate. One lovely lady replied, and I pried out of her some fantasies and naughty experiences, that evolved into some directed touching. Only deep into the conversation did she tell me she had cum 4 times, including on the bathroom floor. I might have fallen in love...

- One woman had a past history of a torrid affair with a younger (legal) guy. I very gradually drew out of her how much he sexually dominated her and how much it got her off. We not infrequently texted when she was at work, and I would be able to push her to go to the bathroom and touch herself inappropriately.

- A few months ago, I got an innocent reply to something about a verbal exhibitionist. The usual questioning ensued, and this lovely lady and I had an excellent rapport. Of course I found out that she had a soft (or perhaps wet) spot for men who took control. I did, she was amenable, and I was able to build up to one of the most memorable online sexual nights I can remember or imagine. Alas, we had to part ways.