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M4A Especially enjoying humiliation/shame, non-consensual, pain, laughter or indifference
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NoFikaOnMyWatch is a male looking for anyone
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About me

Just a regular Swedish guy, that sometimes like to put my non-vanilla thoughts down in written form. I have written a few short stories over the years, some of which I have saved and some are lost in cyber space. I can also enjoy the occasional "quick chat" format. I'm pretty flexible and open to new ideas.

Major kinks/scenarios

  • Humiliation, shame and embarrassment (especially the psychological aspect)
  • Bullying and unfair treatment
  • Everyday situations that turn kinky/bizarre
  • A group of people against a single victim
  • Rape, non-consensual sex, groping
  • Pain and torture (often not too much gore though)
  • Blackmailing, threatening to publish humiliating videos
  • The dom(s) either laughing and having fun, or being indifferent and uncaring
  • The submissive being very shy
  • The submissive being naked or partially naked, while the dominant is fully dressed (like CFNM/CMNF)
  • Incest (especially siblings, or mother and son/daughter)
  • Femdom/maledom
  • CBT/Ballbusting
  • SPH (Small penis humiliation)
  • Transgender MTF, futanari, sissification

Kinks/scenarios that might work, with the right framing

  • Wet (but mostly pee denial, maybe combined with ballbusting. Or just the humiliation aspect of a sub peeing in front of people)
  • Furry
  • Race-play
  • BDSM-dungeon or BDSM-outfits
  • Gay with only masculine characters

Not my cup of tea

  • Touchy-feely or romantic, unless used as a base/setup for something more dark/twisted
  • Too much focus on just sex
  • Messy/food, diapers
  • Scat, vomit, blood, or too intense gore
  • Mature (aka "grandma") characters
  • Animals, aliens, tentacles
  • Obesity
  • Deformities

Writing style

If it is a longer story, I tend to prefer writing in third person (omniscient or not) unless it's based on a personal experience/fantasy with me in it. But any style works (and even mixing sometimes). I prefer some background to the characters, but nothing crazy (sometimes just a few sentences is enough). And I often prefer a buildup before any "action". I want to be able to feel that what is happening is somewhat plausible, and with a good background story and buildup my mind tends to accept much more kinky/strange/bizarre stuff later on.

A quick chat, or longer email conversations building a story. Both are of interest to me. But either way I prefer starting with just discussing the topic/theme a little bit.

Most of my writing involves dominance and submission of some sort (consensual or not, mostly not...), and I can write from either the dominant's or the submissive's point of view (I am switch) if it's a first person perspective. I am also perfectly fine with writing from a girl's/woman's perspective, although I might not always have the needed insight to portray the full character.

Communication medium

I'm very flexible, and open to trying new websites or apps. Facebook is a no-go though.

Who I am looking for

I am looking for a like minded pervert of any age, gender or ethnicity, with a love for writing or chatting about kinky stuff like the things above. And it's a big plus if you, just like me, also see the funny side in all of this. I don't take myself too serious all the time, and hopefully you don't either. Also, I don't mind sometimes going full META, and discussing and analyzing the kinks/topics and why we link or hate them. Sometimes people write to me (well not here yet, since I'm new) just asking me, "why do you like humiliation?". And I don't mind such questions at all! I maybe can't give a complete answer, but I would at least give my best.

If your kink is not on my list above it might still be interesting for me, so feel free to write and ask me! I have a very open mind, and I don't get offended or disgusted easily. Try me!

I am also open for a setup where I do most, or even all, of the writing. But in that case I tend to favor requests from girls/women (including transgender) or feminine guys. Don't judge me for having a soft spot for anyone feminine! ;)

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