You know, there’s something quite overwhelming—almost intimidating—about diving back into roleplay.
It’s like being transferred to a new university in the middle of the year: discovering a whole new campus, trying to make friends, attending your first class, running from one office to another because there’s always some issue with your registration files... In short, it’s a real hassle. It’s pretty overwhelming, but I’m still super excited to come back strong! :)

Who am I?
Well... My name is 23 . I’m a 20-year-old Gabonese woman (so exotic, right? 😎). I’ve been in the RP scene for 7 years now, so I like to think of myself as a rather seasoned writer! And when I’m not roleplaying, I’m a student with plans to dominate the world, mwahaha.

I’m a huge fan of stories with dark themes, especially toxic / immorale relationships: that captivating mix of love and destruction, where love literally becomes a double-edged sword, red flags pile up but are ignored until it’s too late. I adore exploring constant tension, intense drama, and the moral dilemmas that come with it.

That said**, I’m** not your girl if you’re looking for plots that are purely sadistic or aim to romanticize these types of relationships. I prefer exploring them in a realistic and mature way, as dark, complex, and nuanced as they can be. I'm not interested in those my little poney ahhh narative where a kiss and some cuddle make a toxic relationship be healty , i'm way more interested in seeing how thing get worst until our characters are just kind of... used to it ?

If this sounds like your vibe, then we’re already off to a great start! But now… let’s talk about how I operate. Which means: even more reading—yay!

• 99% of the time, I’ll play as a Dom, so I’m looking for submissive partners. The concept of switching doesn’t really work for me because constant role changes often make things confusing. I can play as a Sub, but only if I respond to your post or explicitly indicate that I’m looking to be submissive. Sometimes, I might ask directly—because, well, you’re that good, and you deserve to see me on my knees.
• I’m comfortable playing all genders, but my characters will always be Black and very African. I love character creation, especially when I can weave elements of my culture into them to make them richer.
• I enjoy playing multiple characters, but I avoid doing so solely for sexual reasons, harems, or unnecessary objectives. I prefer focusing on the story between our two characters and using secondary characters to diversify interactions.
• I’m flexible with my writing. I can write a lot or keep it concise. However, I have to admit that I’m not a fan of excessively short replies or the expectation of writing a novel for every response. I also dislike word-count minimums—there are just too many factors to consider. Plus, our roleplay isn’t a school assignment due tomorrow! The goal is simply to provide enough detail and action to move the story forward and help us better visualize the scene. Let’s just have fun :)
• I don’t have a fixed RP-to-ERP ratio because… what even is that? How do you calculate it? Do people really treat sexual scenes as mere filler? Every sexual scene in the roleplay will have meaning and impact the story. If we need to talk, let’s talk. If we need to f*ck, let’s do it.
• I’m in GMT 1 and a student, so I’m usually more interested in long-term roleplays with a slower reply pace. On average, I respond one or more times a day, but always keep in mind that my IRL life takes priority over RP. I’ll let you know if I can’t play on a specific day.
• I love OOC chats! I’ve noticed that roleplays often work better when there’s a small connection between the players. Creating a comfortable environment for both of us is, in my opinion, key to making a roleplay work in the long term—though sometimes it works without that too.
• I usually write in the third person, but I also enjoy first-person writing.
• I only roleplay on Reddit message or Discord servers! Maybe kik but no chat.
• : Modern and Fantasy settings only.

What I Expect from You

• That you meet all the things I mentioned above!
• That we share most of my kinks. Of course, not all of them are required, but the more we have in common, the better it will be.
• Someone cool.

Kinks

Let’s dive in, moan, and make that (fictional) bed ours! Unfortunately, I don’t have a chart or link listing my kinks exhaustively. I’m a bitch who know what she want and what she's looking for, and there are only a few kinks that really resonate with me. Bring your own list too, and if you notice some kinks I didn’t mention here, feel free to ask me about them.

• Non-consensual: I love this kink! Whether it’s for its intensity or its ability to instantly make things darker when done right. I should mention that this kink is really my favorite, and not being interested in non-consensual themes probably means we’re not compatible. Sorry, but that’s just how it is.
• Pain: I prefer pain that can leave scratches or marks over anything involving cutting. I love slaps, bites, kicks, and things like choking or breath play. While it won’t kill your character, it can lead to some intense scenes.
• Contrast: Whether it’s age, height, skin color, culture, or social class differences, it’s always fun to play with these dynamics!
• Body Worship: Feet, butt, breasts, thighs, heels—you name it. Kissing, licking, sucking—you get the idea. I also have a slight preference for a "dirty" form of body worship, like when it’s sweaty. I’m a sadist, after all, hehe.
• Abuse: Oh, so unexpected! Verbal abuse, physical abuse, manipulation, corruption, jealousy, degradation, humiliation—you name it, and I probably love it. Hehe.
• Seduction: Kissing with tongue, whispering, licking someone’s face, pinning them against a wall, lip-biting—it’s incredibly sexy!
• Step-incest by marriage: Stepmother, stepbrother, that kind of thing.
• False appearances: Imagine a relationship with a famous person. I love the idea of this celebrity sharing photos that make people believe in a healthy relationship or presenting themselves as a perfectly functional couple in public... until they’re alone in a room together.
• Cheating / Homewrecking
• Bondage: It’s sexy. <3

Limits

Pretty self-explanatory, no?

• Copy-paste messages: When I read a message, I'm mainly looking for a partner who shows they're interested, and this can be done in many ways, like simply tell me what interested you about the plot, but especially by bringing something to the table right away by suggesting ideas. I know that being the one who sends messages can be frustrating, and I understand that having a ready-made copy/paste response saves a lot of time. But if your post never references mine or doesn't bring anything to the conversation... I probably won’t be interested. And that even if you tell me you have 18 years of roleplay experience. Sorry!
• Hypnosis
• BDSM Relationships (Okay with some BDSM aspects, but I prefer relationships where our characters are equals and the Dom/Sub dynamic is more psychological than overt. Equals until the Dom has to prove they’re in charge.)
• Sex with "weird holes" (navel, ear, nipple, nose, that kind of thing)
• Porn-like plots
• Bestiality
• Extreme physical violence (like mutilation)
• Vomit
• "I’m open to anything" as a first message
• Anything remotely related to fandoms

Thanks for reading!

If you’ve read this post and enjoyed it, I’m thrilled! However, I want to be clear: this post is NOT an invitation for you to send me your plot ideas! I already have a few plots in mind and can’t wait to upload them as soon as Reddit allows me to do so! 😊 please wait a bit :)

XOXO 😊