HI! I'm a 25 year old woman from the Netherlands/Nederland looking for a conversation, not an RP or anything like that. I think sex is an interesting conversation topic which you can't be fully open about in polite conversation but the advantage is here you can. I have a relationship of 3,5 years and my boyfriend knows I talk here (and I do nothing more than that).

I prefer a long term conversation and I prefer to have a partner react to one of my prompts instead of opening with just "hello" or "hoe is it going?". I like to see that you've actually read and thought about it and react to it. I only talk through the reddit chat. I prefer to talk in Dutch but I can talk in English too.

I mostly like to talk about themes like arousal, preferences, experiences and relationships. What I like most is things like routines or patterns you have when having sex. I think sex should be a bit monotonous. Doing it often but without bells and whistles is a sign of a good relationship. Having a routine is even better. I don't get why those things are often proclaimed as something bad.

I'm not so sensitive down there and I can't get to orgasm from anything a man does so I'm not at all focused on that during sex. I avoid getting oral or fingered. I much rather focus on his orgasm. But I'm passive during sex too. Part of that is laziness but I also think it's manlier for him to take up the active role and it's easier for me to do it when I'm not aroused too that way (since my libido is a bit low). Our sex usually consists of a few minutes of missionary.

That is who I am and what I like to talk about. I like talking about other kinds of themes within sex and arousal too but then be clear what you want to talk about. Like I said I only use the reddit app so if you want to start a conversation send me a request there.