Updated Sept 16, 2024

Hey all, I hope you like my profile! I hope this post attracts the correct partner for me. I am looking for a long-term role play partner. I am not looking for a one night stand RP. While my prompts involve plenty of cheating and homewrecking I enjoy prompts that build up to both the cheating and the homewrecking. I love a slow build up, and world creation.

Introduction/Who Am I?

• Name: Dan
• Gender/Sexual Orientation: Straight Male.
• Age: 33
• Time Zone: EDT/EST (NY)
• Appearance: Physically I am 5'7 HWP and well put together.

Outside of Reddit I have a career which I am passionate about, Some of my hobbies include video games, reading, wood working/building, snowboarding, skateboarding, and taking long hikes through nature.

In the bedroom setting, I would consider myself a switch. In my day to day I am would say I am dominate, I manage people, I manage the all family plans, etc. With that in mind some days are draining where I can switch turn myself down and be submissive however, I much prefer to be dominate in 95% of all cases.

Who am I looking for?

I am looking for a partner who like details and a slow build up. I like creating a perfect scene with someone. I am in the mindset of quality over quantity. I will take one long novel a day over someone who sends 1 to 2 low effort messages in a hour timespan. I am looking for someone who is creative and imaginative.

If you chose to respond to my profile I ask for:

• A little introduction of you. I like to know who I am RPing with. I do ask you send me your IRL age prior to starting. I will never interact with a Minor, I am also very hesitant to RP with someone who claims they just turned 18. I prefer someone who is 21 but can make exceptions for a proper writer.
• A description of the character you would like to play as.
• kinks/limit list. should we chose to RP I would like to incorporate your kinks into our world just as much as mine and I want to be respectful of your limits.

My style of RP

I am very flexible and I can write in the first or third person however, first person writers will have priority for my prompts, however if your the right person I am happy to write in the third person. I am a person who enjoys story and world building just as much as I love the smut. I love a slow build and I love know about things leading up to the smut. I would like a healthy balance between the two. maybe 40% story, 60% smut or an equal 50/50 split. I love to write and hear about the world we are in. While there a kinks and limits section in this page, I do have some character limits that I'd like to list here:

• I will never play an overweight character, in my real life I take pride in being fit and eating correctly. I can't relate with a character who does not share similar goals. I don't need to be muscular in every role I play however, I will not play someone who is very overweight.
• I will never play a character above the age of 50. I am already feeling old as I age through my 30s. I tend to prefer characters who closer in my age range 30-39 as it is easier for me to relate with characters. I can play characters in my 40s for the right person however I do tend to stick with my IRL age /- a few years.
• This will be included in my limits section but I'd like to make it apparent here too, I will NEVER play an incest prompt. I do not want to be your dad, grandpa, brother, etc.

Some common RP etiquette:

• Please never tell me what my character is thinking or try and take control of my character. Its okay for your inner monologue to wonder how I am feeling , but its never okay to outright assume what I am thinking. I share the same respect for you and your characters.

Note: I love to world build and scene build, all prompts on my page are negotiable. If I say I saw you wearing X it is likely what is popped in my head and I would love for you to add your own spice to my prompts. I love a collaborative experience. While starters to my prompts are okay, i often prioritize those who want to collaborate prior to starting the prompt.

Update: As it has been stated multiple times I love details so with that in mind I am able to max out the Discord character limit easily. I am looking for someone who can do the same however, this is not a requirement. I am a believer of quality over quantity. If you can get your point across in 1000 words opposed to 2000 words I will respect that, but I do not appreciate low effort.

Update: I am not a grammar snob, I understand English isn't everyone's first language as long as what your writing is legible I am okay with it. I don't mind punction mistakes and what not we are all human.

Update: I do have the availability to send messages through out my 8-5 work day. I understand everyone is busy, but if we are in a prompt I request at minimum two or three responses per day, however I am flexible, if you inform me you are having a busy day and can't message for the day then I will respect that. I will assume after 72 hours without a IC or OOC contact our prompt is finished.

Update: Please I do not know why people have this urge to try and send me IRL photos of themselves and after doing a reverse search its just some random IG model. I am never going to ask for an IRL photo of you.

Update: I love character creations, please if you respond to any of my prompts create your own character. I don't want to build out your character.

Logistics

• Time Zone: Again I am in EST, I often find myself able to respond through out the 8-5 work week frequently and some nights and evenings. Ideally my partner is in in the same EST time zone, however I found success in partners in both CST or UK/EU time zones
• You're reply should be fairly lengthy, I would like to know a short blurb about you, and a detailed introduction of the character you'd like to play.
• Ideally there would be multiple responses per day however, I know real life is priority, please just introduce an RP break to let me know before disappearing for hours/days on end.
• My preferred platform is here on Reddit in either chats or DMs however, I am in the process of creating a RP discord that I am happy to share out once created.

Kinks & Limits

(This is not an inclusive list, in my real life I am fairly vanilla and still learning what I like and don't like)

• Cheating/Homewrecking - This is my biggest kink, almost all of my prompts have some sort of cheating/homewrecking tied to it. I prefer this be a kink of yours as well. While not every prompt needs to have this in it a majority of them should have it.
• Clothed sex - There is something about it. Being able to lift a mini skirt, or rip a pair of leggings. I very much enjoy the power my character has when I have the ability to access what I want. I also love the thought of being so into eachother we can't bother getting undressed and I have to take my dick out threw my pants. I also love the feeling of maybe being in an office setting so we might feel rushed to have a quickie, so we can't bother with having to undress.
• Big ass - I am an ass man over boob man every day of the week. While I can appreciate a nice chest, there is nothing more teasing to me than a woman in leggings or tight clothing really flexing her ass.
• Teasing - I love a slow build, and teasing is a great way. I love a descriptive partner who can really detail how the teasing can work to make my character feel so aroused.
• Dirty talk/Flirting - I love scenes that start of slow, plenty of flirting and teasing occur. I love the slow build up to the smut.

Limits

• Scat/Piss/Toilet play - seriously just leave it out.
• Incest - In my RP section I have this stated to. This is gross to me. No kink shaming to those who enjoy it, just not my vibe.
• Violence/Gore - I am not a violent person by nature. I do not mind light slapping, spanking, etc but being incredibly violent/abusive isn't my thing
• Feet Play - I just dont like feet.
• Celebrity play - This is a weird limit, but I just don't find joy in someone I am RPing with wants to be a celebrity.
• Catfishing - I don't want to be catfished, and I don't know why some people want to play some IG model. If your username or profile has a ton of models from IG I am likely not going to answer you. I prefer you create your own unique character.

Active Prompts:

• The Man meets a homewrecker at a community BBQ
• The Jealous neighbors wants the married man
• The engaged intern needs to make a sale

Please note: I am happy to build and create a prompt with someone and these two are not mandatory. I will try to remember to add more prompts to this post as I create them.