If you're reading this, thanks for stopping by! Hopefully something here catches your eye...that is if this post doesn't get lost in the sea of 'M4F' posts.  

About me:

I work in a highly technical field, so my brain is constantly going a hundred miles an hour. I have a few advanced degrees in this technical field, so sometimes it's nice to turn my brain off and write some sexy stories. In the last year or so, I have (once again) turned to reading, writing, and role playing to scratch the itch in the creative part of my brain.

I am in my early thirties, with a successful career and good life. I am in good shape and try to stay very active. I have played sports all my life - throughout high school and in college. I still play my main sport today, but I'm not quite as spry as I used to be. (Apparently, playing a contact sport for 25 years can give you bad knees - who knew?). In addition to that, I enjoy playing all types of video games.

If you want to know anything else about me, feel free message/chat me to ask! I'll tell you most things, except where it puts my privacy/safety in question.

Writing Style:

To me, the best stories are all in the details! I love writing slow-burn stories where it takes time to develop into something sexual - not too much time, but I'd prefer to not jump straight into the action.  I think it's more satisfying (and hot) to let the sexual tension develop. I love nuances between characters, how each character sees and reacts to the world around them.

I am open to either first or third person perspective - first person is probably more fun since you can become more immersed in the story.

If you're looking for more insight into my writing style, check out the story that's posted on my profile - 'Moving In'.

I generally prefer long-term RPs, as long as both people are invested in the story. I have found it's difficult to keep two adults aligned for long periods - because let's be honest, life comes first. My life outside of Reddit is ultimately the most important thing to me, so sometimes I may be out of pocket for a day or two. Because of that, I am open to quicker, short-term RPs.

The Ideal Partner:

The most important thing to me is that my partner puts in as much effort into the conversation or story as I do. It's one of my biggest pet peeves when I feel like I have to drive the story along by myself. I've found that ultimately the key to avoiding this is to make sure both partners have a hand in developing the story and are equally into it.

Another big thing for me is that my partners have to be literate and able to insightfully contribute to the story. They must avoid the clichés of most stories/scenarios (porn-logic).

As far as topics and story ideas, I am into a variety of different things. At some level, I am into most things except anything underage, hardcore r*pe, violence, bathroom stuff, and animal stuff.

To give you an idea of what I like, some ideas and types of stories are:

• Complicated situations with complicated characters
  • Strangers are stranded in the woods, how do they survive, and how do they get out?
  • My sister-in-law is hitting on me, does she really want to fuck me?
  • Cheating on my SO with my neighbor's wife/daughter.
• Slice of life relationships
  • Is the happily married couple as happy as they appear?
  • I'm developing feelings for my friend with benefits.
  • My step-sister/mom isn't technically related to me, right?
• Friends to lovers
  • I have a crush on my best friend... what now?
• Historical or Fantasy - Wild west, Dark ages, etc.

This definitely isn't an exhaustive list, it's just what I put together quickly tonight. If you have any ideas similar to these, reach out and let's talk about coming up with a story, together.

I am looking for anything - from a long-term RP partner, to a sexting buddy, or even a new friend. I obviously prefer the committed RP partners (hence, the post in the DPP subs), but I also love chatting with and getting to know new people. If we click, then it can turn into whatever we want.

I definitely prefer to write and RP over Discord. Cause let's be honest, Reddit chat is inconsistent at best, while Reddit messages are clunky as hell.

What's next?

I've had a lot of great RP partners and a lot of amazing chatting partners, but sometimes it's just too exhausting to message someone looking for a RP partner, just to get ignored or ghosted a few days (or hours) later. So I'm hoping that I can this post will help me find a committed partner who is looking for the same things - this is my promise that if I see your message/chat, I will respond!

If you've read this far, and are still interested, send me a chat or a message! If we hit it off, we can move to Discord. :)