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This long piece of literature is broken up into three parts:
- An introduction
- A guide to messaging me
- My past prompts
Introduction
Who are you?
I'm TheFreakyDaughtor (or as my exes would call out while grunting, Isabela). I'm a mid20s cis Latina (:D) woman on the east coast (EST / GMT-5). If we get close (or you know me from the IRC), you'll know my nickname as well. Otherwise, feel free to call me Isabela.
I've been on DPP for a hot minute now (or two years, take your pick), and I figured I should make a DPP profile with my interests, prompts, kinks, preferences, and so on listed. So yeah. Here it is!
What sorts of prompts do you like?
A constant pattern and preference for me are elements of servitude, domestication, darkness, specifically regarding corruption, gaslighting and (a lack of) consent. Those two subject matters have a pretty deep hold on me, and most of my prompt do, or will, probably involve one or two of those. A lot of people who have written in have tried to sort of edge around the darkness of what I'm looking for, so I want to make explicitly clear that I want stories where my characters are assaulted, raped, or taken advantage of. If I post a prompt where my character is forced into a sexual scenario, I'm flexible about the scenario itself and who the characters are, but the draw and tension of the scenario is the scenario core; which would be being forced into a sex scene. I don't mind wide suggestions to my prompts on the basis of what the façade or aesthetic of the story is, but I generally am posting looking at the core of the scenario as what is sexually exciting to me.
How do you write?
As far as my writing style goes, I don't have a strong preference between first or third person, past or present tense. Generally speaking, I find that third person is better for describing what is happening to a character, while first person is better at describing how a character is feeling. I'll default to what's more appropriate to the story if you don't have a preference, but if my partner does, I'm very flexible.
Most of my responses are between 50-150 words, though I am flexible within reason. I am a scene pre-planner but I also enjoy it when people message me with a story opener; it usually shows, to me, they have a pretty dominant side by enforcing a story's constraints on me.
What do you look for in a partner?
Further down is a very long guide on what I am looking for when I get a prompt response, but generally I want someone who has a pretty good mastery of the English language. Typos, poor grammar, and poor writing really get to me. I soar when I feel like I'm writing against someone who pushes my own writing, and I generally phone it in or get annoyed when I feel like my level of effort isn't being matched.
I work in a very demanding field that means I can get pulled away or work 17 hour days, and that means some days I might not get a response out.
What platforms do you RP on?
Reddit PMs, discord.
I wanna RP! Or; a guide for how to get responses, at least from me!
Something that's been a reoccurring experience for me through many years of RP, both erotic and normal, has been getting well-meaning but not necessarily on-the-mark responses. I think a lot of respondents, especially M4F responders, get frustrated with a lack of response or might get jaded or disappointed, since they don't really understand why they're striking out. Certainly, when conversations happen entirely in PMs, it can be hard to see why certain people succeed and others don't. It's a source of frustration for me, too; frankly, I often get replies or responses that are hard to respond to, or make me otherwise hesitant to respond to. Something, first and foremost, to remember for us long term, long form RPers is that we're choosing a partner for months, maybe up to years. A lot of us have to be fussy; sometimes, a bad partner is worse than no partner.
Rather than just wallow in it and not actually do anything about it, I've decided to write a little thing here about how to better get a response from me, and, probably, other prompt-posters as well. Hopefully this helps demystify the process for many of you.
Part 1: The depth and quality of the response
I am going to be blunt and say something that probably a lot of responders don't want to hear: size matters. Not the size of any part of you, but the size of your response. If I post a 800-1000 word prompt which lays out the kink, what I'd like to explore, who I imagine my character is, who I imagine you might be, and my limits, and I get a 100 word response? I am really uninterested in responding. It doesn't have to be nearly as long as mine, but it has to put a similar amount of effort that shows that the response was considered. If I get a 150 word response, I'm frankly already disappointed. I know that it won't include kinks or limits, it won't include any sort of analysis of the prompt, and if it has an idea present, it's pretty barebones or rushed. It means to find out whether or not things will work, I will have to do a lot of messaging you and asking you questions, probably forcing me to pry information out of you. And even then, does a 150 word response engender me to want to RP with you?
That extends to the quality of writing in the original response. Even in short responses, they're often riddled with spelling or grammatical errors, are meandering or have run on sentences, or aren't conceptually very tight. A decent number of responses I get present very little structure or ordering, jumping from topic to topic.
Part 2: Treat me with respect.
Many of my prompts are dark, and messed up. They involve rape, degradation, and other humiliating things. That does not mean that is how I want to be talked to by you, a human, outside of a scene. Don't tell me what you want to do to my body, or act like I am my character inherently. Don't message me, telling me I'm fucked up and you want to set me straight to be your good little girl. I don't know you, at all. I'm not your friend, or your lover, I am a woman posting a prompt as a call for other writers. Don't degrade me as a person, don't call me names, don't try to play mind games with me (they don't and won't work, by the way.)
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