Minor CW for very brief mentions of vom*t due to chronic illness and inability to eat due to stress. . . . . . . . . . . .

Yo. I'm Hue (he/him). I'm part of a system in question. I'm 21 and I co host with the body host most. I'm mostly just venting here but feel free to offer advice.

Our gf (has D.i.D too actually) recently got booked in jail on a misdemeanor charge due to a misunderstanding, but we have no money for bail and we can't take their calls anymore. Gf's mom (physically and mentally abusive" doesn't want anything to do with helping them anymore and my parents of course said that's up to us.... but I'm broke. So they're going to have to stay in jail until Feb 14th which is also our anniversary until their trial meeting.

But everyone's telling the Host, Percy, so many different things and people are asking what they're going to do, how they're going to handle it, if they're just going to leave (which they don't want at all) and it's been causing them to just start sobbing and puking because the stress irritates their IBS. So then they forced me out. And I have to deal with the body's IBS flare up, a messy house because they didn't clean for a few days, dry eyes, and a starving body because stress makes it hard for any of us to eat. This just...sucks.

Is this even ethical of them? I don't want to be out right now. Even though it kinda feels like a relief to not be crying.

But if you made it this far, any tips on how to not stress out and absolutely break when youve never been away from your partner this long, all of your mental Illnesses are currently unmedicated, you're in an autistic episode and are rapid cycling emotions with your bipolar and feel a BPD episode coming on? 😅

TLDR: Host made me front to avoid dealing with a crap ton of stress and I'm salty about it and don't know what to do to feel better.