I have been diagnosed very recently so I have alot of questions and knowing me I will ramble

I've added bullet pointed questions at the end

I have no idea who the host is all I know is that I act very differently in different situations and that I have my head people and I can sort of work out who fits where with the changes in personality

All of them say me and I as in me so I can't know who the host is and they all seem to think the body is only there's because I can't like say who it is.

I thaught about did a very long time ago but I have alot more support and a fue people have noticed switches and now I'm diagnosed it's very difficult to understand who is what when and why I don't like thinking of it as someone taking over the body I like the it's what brain I have in but I never know what brain it is and whoever's there is still called Riley and still uses he him pronouns ( even when I think it's one of the girls ) and yeah

I know it's such a covert condition and probably part of understanding it and accepting the diagnosis is about learning who's where rather than ignoring it like I have done since before COVID but I'll bullet point my question

1. how do you know witch person fits with the personality change

   1. Who is the host I don't know what the normal me is like
   2. How do you know if there's a new alter can a new way of acting come before the new person arrives

I hope those made sense and I don't really know of they belong here but I might put it in r/did too