I have 4 alters to my system. One of them is a hypersexual woman and has recently come out sort of a "hibernation". She was gone and quiet for awhile. Since she's come back, she has been making comments while co-conscious that are extremely sexual in nature and highly inappropriate and sometimes damaging to me. While on a family outing she pushed into the front and made some decisions that kinda embarrassed us as a system. Thankfully my family didn't really notice but it still made me upset. She will control the body just so she can be intimate with my husband and get her frustration out. I'm not 100% comfortable with this and neither is my husband. She won't listen when I try and tell her to stop. What can I do?