I am a Dominant but also respected and known as Mentor by some within the lifestyle. I do come with references if needed for vetting a potential play partner. I have evolved over the years...into a much more loving, caring and forgiving parental role (caregiver) in the past 10 or so years. I was raised in a 1950 type strict household where my father and mother were a practicing BDSM couple in a D/s relationship. My father taught me from a young age to be a Dominant and I have been around the lifestyle my entire life. My younger years were hanging out with kinksters with who my parents were friends. There was nothing monogamous about their relationship and I was raised by various submissive’s that lived or frequently visited our strict household. I do have a need to control, but a Dominant always balances "control" of his submissive keeping a directive, to ensure safety and security always and meet the needs and desires of a submissive in his care. I care deeply for the physical, mental and emotional well-being of any submissive. I do have a type that I desire and love to mentor in D/s, namely someone who considers herself as a "little", “lg” who is either experienced or identifies just as a submissive. This would include those looking for training and education within the lifestyle in DD/lg or BDSM as a submissive… Distance is not an issue with the right submissive to meet. Just be serious and not waste my time nor will I waste yours. I can always host if your interested in training; I do own a beautiful home in NE Oklahoma on Ft Gibson Lake where you could visit or live sometime in the future after we meet and build trust and a connection. I'm comfortable in my household as I have everything needed to submerge a submissive into BDSM lifestyle. I own a humble but small business...have a lot of time at home as I can set my own schedule. I'm looking for a playful submissive who is seriously looking for training or a 24/7 D/s Dynamic. I don't do online so don't ask. I am financially secure and independent if that matters to you. I have a soft side, but I can push a submissive beyond soft limits, especially if she wants to explore other areas of the BDSM lifestyle. I use SSC in all my dynamics and if you don't know what that is then you are a novice. I do travel a lot and you can go with me, even when I work. I just returned from Palm Springs CA and the month before I was in Scottsdale AZ for two weeks. I fish, hike, hunt, camp out, ski and spend time with other like-minded kinksters at different national events. I am self-sufficient and a survivalist and have been taught to live off the land. I possess two Grad Degrees, MPH (Portland State) and MPA (The Evergreen State College) and sapiosexual and intelligence and intelligent conversations turn me on. Here is an opportunity to live your dream with a caring, loving, compassionate and intelligent/educated Dominant where your submission is earned and appreciated…I always use safe words and respect limits at all times.

Just moved from a location on West Coast I have lived for over 30 years. A very active Kink scene in Portland OR and Seattle WA. I am now in a rural area in Oklahoma and very conservative and not a lot of opportunities to be social with other kinksters. My play partner did not move with me after a 15-year D/s (light BDSM) relationship. In otherwards I am 100% single at this stage in my life. Being an older Dominant and identifying as a Daddy Dominant sometimes, let’s just say there’s not a lot of opportunities to find submissive’s or littles/middles who want or play and learn with an older experienced Dominant. Something OR Somewhere I would never think I would be in the lifestyle, older Dominant w/o a play partner or submissive... Looking for friends locally (NE Oklahoma/surrounding area), My Assets... Honest. Patient. Kind. Understanding. Compassionate. Strict. Leader. Observant. Committed. Knowledgeable. Real. Loving. Caring. Strong. Available. Intelligent. Open-minded. Respectful. Dominant. Master of his world. Adventurous. Playful. A DOMINANT ALWAYS...

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