Seriously, I see someone trying to pass themselves off using a picture of Codi Vore 2-3 times a day. And the ones that aren't clearly fake are usually p2p, and probably scammers. The karma requirement clearly isn't working. I guess if you're a real woman message me, but I don't expect anything.
Even the ones who seem real and would verify still end up ghosting you. Welcome to reddit.
But the bigger problem is the imbalance between single males and single females here these days. These r4r subs are chock full of porned-up single males looking for insta-fuck hookups. They post dick pics and send messages that say "Hey", or "I'll show you what a real dick can do for you".
There are very few single females looking for that kind of hookup. That's not to say there aren't plenty of single women who would fuck your brains out on the first date, because there are, but it takes a different approach to get most of them out on that first date. So, the few women who show up here get overwhelmed with the sheer volume of low effort or vulgar messages, and flee to somewhere else. Enter all the sex workers, (most of which are strictly online, and won't even fuck you in person) and they're a perfect match for all the porn fantasy single males, and this is what you end up with. Trying to clean up subs doesn't work very well, because once you remove all the fakes, there's no one left other than the clueless single males. If you then ban the dick pics, you end up with a very low activity sub, and no one even shows up any more to post in it.
Of course, there are a few kinky couples like us around these subs, but most of us don't match up with most of the males here, for various reasons. It sounds crazy, but it's true. Even beautiful wives, looking for a side dick to fuck, have trouble finding a match here. So, either learn to enjoy the entertainment value of browsing these subs, or if you're serious about trying to meet real single women, leave and go to the places where they actually hang out.
All that said, we've met a few here. We've played with even fewer, and only found one male we brought back for repeat performances. And we've never played with either a couple or a single female from here. But we keep feelers out in a bunch of other online sites, plus go to a lifestyle club most Saturday nights, so we have our fun.
Good luck and have your fun, too.
We always try for dinner at a restaurant first. If we can't get them to dinner, we know it's time to move on, and we haven't given out our address. If they back out last second and don't show up at the restaurant, well, we have a nice meal out.
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Sites and apps, in their order of success for us, have been: SDC, SLS, AFF, Kasidie, Tinder, 3Fun, Reddit, and FetLife. Really, everything after AFF hasn't generated much for us. Of course, we're old, so not your typical Reddit couple. YMMV.
One thing that's really nice about SDC is the events listings. Besides giving you an idea what the turnout will be at different events, they always seem to list some that I don't see anywhere else.
SDC, SLS, and Kasidie are pay sites, but they all offer lifetime memberships (put on sale at times), so you don't have to keep paying them forever. With the others, we don't consider the pay versions worthwhile, and only do the free versions. AFF is especially overpriced.