Hopefully all the guys already know what Post Nut Clarity is. Sub drop, or more rarely top drop is a similar phenomenon- I actually think these are all the same thing just different intensities on the same spectrum. Basically, when your brain is all excited you get flooded with hormones and chemicals. Your disgust reflex is weakened, you want to continue what you're doing at all costs because the chemicals feel so good.

Unfortunately, nothing in life is free. After your experience, the drop off in those chemicals makes you feel freaking awful and it's basically like a emotional or mental hangover.

You get done joining our community or doing your first kinky thing and suddenly, you feel like the worst person in the world. The walls are closing in, people are going to catch you and you're going to be humiliated, you can't believe you did that thing with that stranger who might be gross, etc.

This is totally normal and I think it's why we see a bunch of people deleting their accounts all the time. Only be with a partner if they're able to give after care. If you don't have a partner, you need to mentally prepare yourself for the drop after every new experience or every thrilling experience. The moderators here would really like to stop having to approve new accounts you made because you've deleted your old account because you were feeling guilty.

Housekeeping items:
My FAQ Post is too long to edit anymore so I need to just move it into the wiki where I will put all this stuff about sub drop

We turned down the new Reddit spam filter to moderate instead of high which hopefully will reduce false positives. https://www.reddit.com/r/DFWcasualencounters/comments/1f6rai2/new_reddit_antispam_filter_having_false_positive/

Remember, do not delete your posts or we cannot fix them or figure out why they triggered one of our custom spam filters where we banned a whole bunch of words and phrases heavily used by bots.