You remember those moments where you just n eeded someone right then and there? Where the rules, the norms, and all of the concerns just melted away and your animalistic cravings just took over? I don't. But I really, really want to. I want to banter with you. Share funny jokes, make each other laugh. And then suddenly be able to think about nothing other than being with you. And I want a partner that feels the same about me.

About me:

42, Married, Father, white collar professional. My humor ranges between dry, dark, and dad. More of a non-fiction than fiction reader, but enjoy both. Same with television. l am 6’1”, 230, and still play sports. I work hard, and am a competitive, type A personality without being a douchebag (god, I hope so, at least). In the bedroom, I would like to think imaginatively deviant. I have an ENM agreement with my spouse, but she is not part of the play or discussion. I tend to be dominant, and love to facilitate people exploring fantasies and desires, either in a Ds scenario or just as two people enjoying trying new sexual experiences. I'm ddf, straight-forward, respectful (unless you don't want me to be), and sane.

About you:

Younger than 40, female, generally in the same shape/fairly petite.

A good communicator, without games.

Actually enjoys sex, can comfortably talk about what you want, what technique works, and the ability to say "nope, not like that, like this" knowing that I just love good feedback and don't get offended by learning about a woman's personal preferences.

Actually enjoys giving oral; like you consider it a talent. (Don't worry, this is not a one-way thing. I'm not selfish.) Also, no aversion to (and preferably a big fan of) the end product of a man's orgasm.

Enjoys the rougher side of sex at times, can talk dirty comfortably and enjoys doing it.

Knows how to push a man's buttons to make them want you right. fucking. now.

Bonus points if you are generally a bit submissive when the bedroom door closes. (Or into Ds, which I'm open to, potentially, and have significant Dom experience.)

What's Next:

If I've caught your attention, or at least intrigued you, send me a chat. There's nothing to lose and perhaps a whole lot of fun to gain. To ensure you've read my entire post, tell me one aspect of my post that intrigued you.