hi.

like the title says, I'm looking for a short or long term friends with benefits sort of situation. Recently got out of a 7 year relationship so I'm definitely not looking for anything serious. But I do know that I have wants and needs and that's where you come in! I really value connection and I'm hoping to find a man who shares similar interests/hobbies, music taste, and/or general vibes with me to befriend and be intimate with.

First off, mutual attraction is extremely important so here's kinda what I look like. I am plus sized, always have been since I was a wee lass, however I've lost like 70 lbs in the past few months ^{my secret? the getting cheated on diet haaaa} and plan on never stopping until I'm a healthy weight. And according to the body composition test my dietitian makes me do, if I had 0% body fat I'd be around 160 lbs at 5'6". Which is super crazy to me but I am very stronk and have a lot of muscle so I guess it makes sense. If you like 'em THICK, I'm your girl. I hit the gym at my apartment complex weekly nowadays and have my own weight set to use at home. I'm all about self improvement for 2024 and would appreciate a friend who's supportive of my goals. :)

Now that that's out of the way, here's a little crash course about me: total animal lover and have an education as a veterinary assistant, I've rescued lots and lots and lots and lots of dogs and cats over the years. They're my #1 passion in life because they're all just sweet little buddies and I love every single one I've ever met. I currently have 2 cats, a dog, and a leopard gecko. I'm a massage therapist by trade but my license in Texas expired last year, maybe I'll brush up on my skills and practice on you? ;) As far as hobbies go, I love gardening a whole lot, fishing is one of my favorite past times, I also enjoy perusing Half Price Books and reading, I have several aquariums and am a huge nerd about them, I just got into building gunpla and love it so far, in case you didn't notice my username I'm very 420 friendly, and lastly, just good ol' fashioned media consumption like TV shows, movies, and youtube videos. I'm a huge audiophile and tend to find I connect really well with people who have similar taste as me. Here's a list of some of my favorite artists- Amy Winehouse, Audioslave, Blue October, Beach House, Coldplay, The Cranberries, Deftones, Eminem, Gem Club, Kings of Leon, Korn, Mac Miller, Modest Mouse, Moby, Pearl Jam, Phantogram, Portishead, Radiohead, The Rolling Stones, Weezer, Young the Giant, and the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, just to name a few.

On to the fun part! I've only ever had one partner before, so I'd appreciate patience and taking things slow. I'm completely STD and STI free, have the paperwork to prove it, and expect the same of you. I'm also on several forms of birth control right now for peace of mind and hormone regulation. And due to that second part I'm always in the mood and battling some serious carpal tunnel, if you know what I mean. I have a huge cum fetish, so if you make big loads I'll be in heaven. I consider myself to be pretty kinky and somewhat of a switch but I prefer being the sub mostly. I love being groped during make out sessions and dry humping especially. I have a breeding fetish but currently do not want kids. I can be a bit vanilla in that I don't enjoy rough or aggressive sex at all. Love car play, public play, toys like fleshlights and vibrators, and light bondage.

What I'm hoping for: a sweet guy who's patient and has a lot in common with me and a lot of mutual attraction so we can sexually satisfy each other without the burden of commitment/responsibilities in a relationship. Please be between 22-35. You MUST be STD/STI free with proof. I will admit I have a thing for white and asian guys but my taste is not exclusive. NO MARRIED MEN! Low effort replies will be ignored. Thanks for reading and good luck out there! (✿◠‿◠)