My wife and I went to sex a club for the first time last night. it was exhilarating at the same time frightening. I’ve never had sex in front of anyone. Much respect to the male porn stars! we played for several hours solo. It was great. However, I struggled with my erections and that isn’t normally like me. I loosened up at the end and really put on a good show. I ended up fucking my wife hard and when she came I pulled out and came all over her face. It was amazing because a crowd of people were watching us. It definitely checked a bucket list for us.
That said, I’m 40, fit, and was pretty embarrassed that I struggled for a while. I don’t drink or smoke. We’ve been together 24 years total. I have high testosterone (I’m on trt). Has there been a time or two occasionally in our history I’ve struggled? Yes when tired, not into it, or when we’ve already had sex a lot and I couldn’t go anymore.
What can I do to help this? It sucked pretty bad even though she was a champ about it. I’d get hard, then not, semi hard, then not. But at the end, wow it was awesome.
FYI - I even took cialys to help but it didn’t really help me until hours later.
Help!!
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