If you look at our post history, there are plenty of posts where we're looking for single males too. Most single males here are too young for us. Our female half loves women of all ages, so we're willing to consider couples who are younger and interested in older couples, but we're rarely interested in males younger than late thirties.

We also want singles to be bi. We get plenty of messages from men who are willing to receive a double blowjob from us, but don't want to reciprocate. While we might be down for that every once in a while in a real life situation, that's really not what we're shopping for. We're fine with playing completely straight with couples, if that's their preference, but single males need to be interested in both sides of sucking dick before we'll pursue things further.

We understand all the fakes who are just pic collectors, but this last couple sent us a message expressing interest, then sent a pic (which they never got around to deleting), but then deleted all their messages to us as well as their profile.

There are a lot of young husbands here who seem to fantasize about older women and getting their own wife into the lifestyle, but never get the courage to even share any of that with their wives. But even most of them message longer than this couple did.

if you need a third or maybe an audience to watch you two make eachother cum let me know I love watching

Do all of you men who post this not realize how strange it seems to an actual couple? If we bring a third into the mix, we want to spend our fair share of time molesting them too, and not just put on a show for them. If you're really only interested in watching porn, just go watch porn.

It's today's reminder that most men here are their own worst enemies. In just casual conversation, you managed to drop something that left us completely uninterested.

Sure.

Gives you incentive to stay fit, doesn't it?

New York, but here you are, in a DFW sub?

Yes, Reddit R4R subs are mostly younger people. And even the attractive younger couples here (the few who are real) have trouble finding other attractive people who will actually show up. And it's not just here. Online is just a porn fantasy for most, so every site seems to have mostly fakes and tire kickers. But we have better luck on SDC, SLS, AFF, and even Tinder, than here. But we're old plus we're picky, so we keep lots of feelers out, plus we spend most Saturday nights at swingers clubs. Hard finding people who are secure and comfortable enough with themselves to actually enjoy the lifestyle, wherever you go.

Yeah, lots of tire kickers. Casual sex in a threesome or foursome is a great porn fantasy for lots of people, but many can't quite pull it off in real life.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings, but not only is AFF mostly men, but it also skews older than any of the other sites. It really isn't worth paying for. If you just keep a free account there, post some good pics on your profile, chat in the Texas chatroom there, and keep a Kik account with the same name (you can't read mail on AFF with a free account, regulars there know to try sending a Kik message to the same name), you'll get offers. But, you'll have to wade through lots of older men and couples to find those very few matches. If you stop by the Texas chatroom, say hi to our male half, who stops by there often. Our AFF name is MischiefForUs. Not many hookups happen in the chatroom, but people will see you there and Kik.

SDC is really better for a young couple looking for other young couples and singles, and if you end up liking it, they put their lifetime memberships on sale now and then, so you don't have to keep paying forever. But, there are plenty of fakes and tire kickers on every site. Good luck and have fun.

We lose some when we ask for pics. We know that will happen, but without face pics and at least G-rated body pics, we really don't know if we're interested, so we always ask.

Others send all kinds of nude pics and ask for nude pics from us. When it becomes obvious to them that we're not into trading pics, they're gone.

With others, they are completely excited about all of it until we ask to meet for dinner, then they disappear. We never know if these are just husbands acting without their wives' knowledge, or if they just get cold feet at this stage. But, we've learned to just consider everyone fake until they show up for dinner, so we tend to give that dinner invite fairly quickly.

Ones who actually show up but don't want to play, we're ok with that. If they aren't that hot to jump our bones, it wasn't going to go well anyway. Sometimes, the chemistry in real life just isn't there.

If you stop by the r/Swingers sub, you'll find plenty young couples who are creeped out by older couples, while others post about how much better encounters have gone when they've been with older couples. That's why there's chocolate and vanilla. Everyone has to find their own ones they match with, and most of us husbands have wives who are pickier than us. Good luck with your window shopping and have fun.

As for ghosting, we're used to that. But the ones who leave this fast always have us wondering. Over on AFF, it's surprising how often others (mostly men, because it is mostly men on AFF) message us, but then delete their accounts before we even showed up to read the message. People who are that gun shy actually message other people? Strange, strange.

Hi there. Dm us with pics and info, or give us your Kik if you're more comfortable sharing there.