I made this guide, because a lot of you don't know the unspoken rules and order of how finding a jobud works. Its really simple, and all you have to do is be realistic.

• At least 85% of the people who message you will either flake or lose interest

Its just how online r4r's kind of work. A lot people are just horny and the thought of jerking with a guy gets them harder. Those people are 100% a waste of your time and you can find out pretty quickly on how desperate they are to do something with you at that specific moment

If u get disgusted at yourself or completely lose interest after ejaculating, This is not for you.

So now you are only working with 15%. That small percentage are a wide variety of people. But they are usually much more defined and confident. They aren't afraid to admit they are gay or bi. They get to the point pretty quickly on what they want and what they offer.

• Typically, the host makes the rules, not you (the non-host)

I see all these funny posts, its a shit ton of requirements. Then at the very end "must be able to host"

WHAT? Lmaoo that is not how it works. Your 15% will most likely drop to 0% and the people who message you will never get anywhere with you. The hosts have a ton of people messaging them, because they can host and very few people can. You don't get to make the rules, they do. So cut the requirements, this isn't a job interview, and keep your post simple like basic stats and what you are into.

• Less requirements mean more possible engagements

"Must be good looking, Must be hung, Must send face pic, Must be athletic, Must have a car, Must be a professional, 8 inches only, Asians/Blacks/Whites/Martians/Zombies only"

Are you picking cabinet colors here? This is all useless information that just discourages people. Especially the first one. What i consider good looking is different then what you think good looking is, even so who the fuck cares, I'm looking to jerk not walk down the marriage aisle with you.

Even if you are hosting, I wouldn't recommend putting this in your post.

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• Most of the time straight or "straight curious" guys are not worth it

I say most, because there are definitely a handful of exceptions. But most of the time the straight/curious/straight curious guys are in the 85%. They just don't know what they want, and usually doubt themselves. So if you are serious I might as well put bi in the post. Bi doesn't mean anal is a given and you can discuss this with the other person long before you meet up.

• The longer u build up a friendship with a bud, they higher chance u have of meeting them and having multiple encounters.

98% if you try to jump into it and immediately try to get something asap it does not work. Grindr is the app you want if u are looking for immediate hookups. The more time you spend building the acquaintanceship the better chance u have of the bud meeting with you. And if it works out well the first time, because u already built the foundation getting a 2nd/3rd/4th/Xth meetup is substantially easier.