Hi there,

You might recognize my post/username, I've decided to just create a new account as it seems no one is receiving messages from my old account... so, if we had been previously chatting and you haven't heard from me and want to keep talking, please send me a message and hopefully I'll have a little more luck with this account!

My name is Jake, I'm 35 from Denver, Colorado and I'm searching for IRL or online to start, forever little :)

I've had about 8 years total experience with being a daddy, unfortunately after the untimely passing of my first and only little I've taken the past 5 years away from being a daddy, and from relationships all together up until a few months ago. I'm at the point now where I've felt healed and ready enough to put myself back out there. Standard "vanilla" relationships just aren't for me, as I've learned over the past few months trying to find someone new to love. I need and crave being a daddy.

Before I get too carried away - if any of you might be wondering. I will not ever compare any relationship I build with you to my previous one. I've gone through enough therapy and done enough self reflection to know that I won't ever have a healthy relationship again if I compare.

Now that that's out of the way, a little about me: the 4 things I hold closest to my heart are my family, my friends, my dogs (and all animals in general) and physical recreation. I will always put these things at the top of my list of priorities, I am however looking to put a new one at the very top, YOU! ;) while the past few years haven't been easy, it has now afforded me one great perk; I've just recently retired from working! Mostly because work was my main distraction during the tough times, I started and ran a successful business and sold it to a much bigger company recently and now am able to support myself and those around me long after I'm no longer around. Which of course allows me the time to focus on the more important things listed above.

Physically, I keep myself in good shape, I exercise as much as I can and a lot of my favorite activities (hiking, snowboarding) also lend to a healthy lifestyle. I do however like to enjoy life, so I don't shy away from indulging when the opportunity comes up. I have shorter brown hair (luckily I still have it all, although I've noticed some grey lately here and there...) hazel/green eyes, I'm just shy of 6'2" and I'm of european/white decent.

As a daddy, I'm stern but fair, caring and gentle. My passion is to guide and help grow, as well as be a dominant firm hand who makes the decisions without argument. This dynamic is sexual in nature to me as well, so if it isn't for you we may not be the best fit. Kink wise I'm fairly open, but we can discuss that when we get there. I will note that I am looking for a near TPE style dynamic.

What I'm looking for: someone genuine, passionate, curious, with a good sense of humor and a youthful spirit. I'm hoping to find someone who is good at conversing, as you can probably tell if you've read this far, one word answers or having to carry the whole conversation won't have me intrigued. In short, I'm looking for someone real, that I can spend my days and grow old with. Ideally I'd like to find someone in the age range of 18-34 who prioritizes thier physical health and wellness, although that is something I'm more than willing to help with if you're in need of some encouragement. Perhaps I'm being naive thinking that I'll find that special someone on reddit, but I've gotta start somewhere right? I'd love to meet someone who lives close but it's not a requirement at all, my search is open to the whole world. I'd also like to move into voice calls fairly shortly after we begin chatting if there's a spark, I just find it so much easier to get to know eachother that way.

If you've read this far and think i might be someone you want to get to know a little better, please send me a message. I can't wait to hear from you.

Jake.