Background:

I'm Looking for the Living Embodiment of This Emoji: 🥺

Personally, I think the best relationships involve a masculine and feminine presence that complement one another. They simultaneously conform to and reinforce each other. The man is a leader who will guide and protect the feminine. The woman is soft, submissive, eager to please, and ready to learn from her masculine.

This extends to all things, not just sexual. My previous relationships have always involved a girl who gets to know herself by getting to know me. And “herself” is always a feminine mirror of me. Even if it doesn’t start that way. My personality is strong, and I need a girl who will recognize and respect that, just as I will respect her ability to accept my influence. I find this intensely gratifying.

I want nothing more than to experience it again with a willing and submissive girl.

Me:

· White male

· 31 years old

· 6'3". Broad shouldered. Husky.

· Wavy brown hair.

· You’ll probably think I’m at least a little handsome.

My interests are deep and wide ranging. I would love to talk to you about literature, poetry, film, music (any and all), science, history, sports, politics, or technology. I also love human nature and psychology (which is another reason I find myself so interested in sexual dynamics). As far as hobbies go, I love lifting weights, film, reading, writing, spending time with friends, and many others.

For me most of my kinks are just natural extensions of the way I am in my day to day life. Some favorites are CNC, DDLG, Pet Play, Impact/Choking, Humiliation & Degradation, & Restraints.

I have a soft spot for all submissive women. I’m not quite sadistic, but I do love being very rough and inflicting pain, especially if you’re a bratty little girl who needs to be put in line a lot. I am openly misogynistic, but in a loving way. Ask me about this, since I know it made you curious. I also love cuddling because it makes me feel large and powerful when I have a small woman in my arms: go figure!

Despite the tone of my post, I don’t really take things too seriously. I like to joke around a lot. I’ll definitely try to invent some bit and get you to play along with it. It’s the best way to feel out the ~vibes~

I am funny according to people who know me. I am serious about the things I believe, but extremely easy to get along with. I know a little about everything so we will always have something to talk about.

At the risk of alienating the audience, here are some of my preferences. They are only preferences and the woman I'm describing is ideal. Hopefully you see at least some of yourself in this girl, however.

You:

Younger than me or around the same age. Intellectually curious but insecure. You are the type that asks questions and are honest when you don't know what something is. You probably tell people you "have no political opinions" because you feel you don't know enough and are afraid to look foolish in front of smart people. As a sweet young girl, you probably generally identify as a liberal/progressive type but you're willing to admit you don't really understand the political system in the U.S.

You're fascinated with some form of art, whether it be music or film or TV or something. At the very least you have a passion and pursue it recreationally, if not professionally. I want you to have a personality that I can mold but be willing to part with if necessary. Ideally if you have strong opinions already you can be swayed by logic, but if you feel you are already deeply entrenched in your worldview and think it will not be possible to change at all, please ignore this post. Unless you just like to argue, then hit me up 😊

Stereotypical man alert: bonus points if you're petite, pale, tall and thin, or a little chubby with a pretty face.

You're capable of writing full sentences (I won't ask a lot from you at the beginning, but effort will be on the list).

I also hope you can commit to communicating your needs and limits clearly, as I will commit to respecting them.

So that's about it. If you read this far, please include in your title a piece of media you've been obsessed with in the last year. Could be a movie, TV show, song, album, or literally anything.