I've been hurt by LDR, so while I'm willing to start online, I really want someone I can hold, so local to SoCal only.

I'm looking for a little/middle, 18-36, petite/slim/average, who is looking for a DaddyDom for something serious, monogamous, long-term. I'd love to grow with my little and learn together. Let's help each other achieve our goals, both separately and together. Communication is important in any relationship and boy do I like to communicate, so an interest to communicate your wants and feelings is greatly helpful.

I'm inexperienced as a DaddyDom. But I am patient, loving, caring, nurturing, communicative. I love teaching and guiding. I love all I read on DDlg. So, if you're you're more experienced as a little and are willing to help tell me where I could care for you better, I promise your efforts will be fruitful.

I think I would be called a Soft Daddy, giving praise, guidance, direction, cuddles. But I also like being firm, rough-housing, brat taming, and spanking. I have many love languages: Quality time, Physical touch, Words of affection, but really, your effort is praise of my own.

I have a lot more kinks, including sensation and impact play, rope play, forced/denial-of orgasms, and many more. I would love to explore these and all of your kinks. And to me, communication is the greatest kink.

I've always been a mentor and educator. I'm 36, 5'10, 190lb, bearded, and have a dad-bod. I'm a computer programmer. I like video/board/RP games. I love to cook for others, watch shows, have long discussions, and learn about your hobbies and favorite activities (I have a lot of my own!).

I would like us to get to know each other for a bit online first. Then we can meet and or have a date.

I would like to hang out in person eventually. And if things develop then they develop.

I'd love to play games online or in-person together. I love sharing my time and entertainment with those I'm close to, so sharing a show, sharing a game, sharing a festival, it's all magic to me.

Maybe you can say hi by telling me your favorite food or cocktail. Tell me about the game you're playing. I'd love a face pic if you are amenable to it.