Hello,

After being indecisive for quite a while, I finally figured out what I like and want. With this post, I am trying to find the perfect little that I can take care of, protect, and call mine forever. This post is probably going to be pretty detailed, so I’ll try to structure it. Also, sorry for spelling mistakes in advance; English is not my native language.

About me

In my day-to-day life, I work as a software developer. I also volunteer at an animal shelter once a week. These two things also influence my free time; I love everything related to tech and PCs. I enjoy PC-building, gaming, or just programming random little things. And well, the other side is animals. I grew up on a small farm surrounded by lots of animals. Over the years, I had lots of pets from a mouse to a horse; there was something for everyone. But I moved to the "big" city and currently just have two bunnies living with me. I still have two cats that live with my mom, but I am trying to find a pet-friendly flat so I can get my two meow meows back.

Other than that, I like to garden a bit, but I don’t grow normal flowers. I grow and also enjoy the devil’s lettuce. It also has a pretty good medical effect for me.

Additionally, I own a motorcycle, so in summer I love to go out for a ride or adventure. And then the usual: movies, series, music, and whatever else there is.

My personality is complicated since I deal with some mental health problems. Most of the time, I would say I am a friendly and helpful person with great empathy. I am more of a listener than a talker, since I am a bit introverted and shy, I guess.

Since I mentioned mental problems, I deal with depression. Currently, I have it under control, but my mood can change sadly pretty quickly.

Now to CGL

I’ve always found CGL interesting because I can fully live out my personality in a dynamic. I just like to take care of someone; that's what gives me joy in life. I love to make people smile or enjoy the moment, that is what I enjoy the most. Another thing is, I can be possessive and be in control of the dynamic. There is a slight suspicion that I have BPD (not diagnosed, so I didn't mention it earlier), and this is just my way to deal with it or actually use it as a strength. When I went through my self-discovery phase, I learned how I can use these weaknesses as a strength and, well, who doesn't like a daddy who is infatuated with his little?

My Daddy and Dom Side

First of all, I should say, I don’t separate the daddy and dom side of mine. I think a good mix makes it. Maybe an example is helpful here: I love to put my little in diapers, and this involves diaper checks, but the diaper check could include some groping and inappropriate touching.

I would say I also have two sides, a nice one and a dark one. But like yin and yang, every evil has something good in it and vice versa.

On the nice side, I work with positive reinforcement. I try my best to keep my little entertained and happy.

On the darker side, I bring out the mind games. It might start nice but with a punishment. A punishment that is meant to be failed by my little, or I will help a little to make sure it is failed. Then it just goes deeper and deeper down the rabbit hole.

Kinks

I think kinks are a good follow-up since they also differ between the two sides. General kinks that I like are: diapers (toilet control), everything around the butt, breeding (just pretend, I don’t want kids (for now, maybe)), and CNC. Limits? I can't really name any, just the obvious: 18 , nothing illegal, permanent damage. I think that’s it; the rest are the limits that my little has. These obviously also become my limits then.

I like to categorize my little’s kinks and limits. Category 1 Limits: everything my little is not willing to do, so the limits. The other two categories are based around kinks. Category 2 is kinks my little enjoys, and Category 3 is kinks that my little doesn't really enjoy but is willing to do. This has to do, again, with the two sides of my daddy side. The nice side likes to give pleasure and enjoyment to my little, so here goes everything you like to do (can also be non-sexual things) and stuff like praising, cute pet names, etc. The darker side likes the stuff you don’t enjoy (can also be non-sexual things). There also goes stuff like spanking/whipping to CNC.

What I am Searching For

Obviously, you! But there are a few things: I am looking for something 24/7 and monogamous, so basically a relationship where we can live that lifestyle. I know a full 24/7 is probably not possible, since work and private lives are things where we probably cannot fully live this out. But before all that, we need to build a bond as two equal human beings. Else it would be nice if you were based in or around Germany or at least in similar time zones.

I don’t have any age range (18 !), maybe 20 , and also don’t really care about looks since the bond is way more important.

If you made it through all of this and you are still here, feel free to message me with a little introduction and whatever you wish to tell me. Hopefully, see you soon! :)