So I used to be big in DDLG with my ex(s) but one in particular messed me up. He would force me into little space or pup space and use it against me. It's been a few months since i got away from him and I'm in a new and much better relationship.

My issue now is I'm noticing I'm starting to go into little space but I'm scared to death about it. I'm pretty sure my bf doesn't like DDLG but I'm not sure what to tell him about this. I'm super scared and honestly being in little space is a bit of a trigger for me and reminds me of my ex.

EDIT/UPDATE: So I told him. I explained as much as I could this late (I'm super tired) and we both agreed tomorrow he'd do some research and cross reference it with me. So when tomorrow comes (knowing him he won't be up until 11a) I may have another update or we may still be talking.

UPDATE: So it's been about 3 months. Sadly my PTSD won't allow me to get over what happened but my current bf is more than happy to help me on the day's I feel little. Thank y'all for the nice words!