A little over a week ago I connected with a Daddy Dom from the UK after posting an ad. Everyday for four days we talked on the phone for at least an hour or two each time and texted some throughout the day as well. We had agreed to enter a dynamic with each other. He completely captivated me. I poured myself and my heart out to him and he drank up every drop and embraced it all. He was so kind and caring and had such a unique perspective on everything we discussed.

Then for the last four days radio silence. Nothing. At first I continued with the routine he set out but after day two I lost hope and felt crazy for continuing with no response.

I don’t understand why this happened. Am I simply being impatient? Did he die?!

I never got his last name or actual phone number, we talked through discord. I don’t think he had any ill intentions…. Maybe ignorantly, I truly trusted him. He never asked for nude or sexual pictures or money or sensitive personal information (and I never gave those things) and he was so respectful of my boundaries. Even with the fact that I wasn’t comfortable referring to him as “Daddy” until a deeper connection took place. (I take the title very seriously and so did he)

The first night we talked for over two hours about Christianity and faith. I’m still in awe of the way he spoke to me and how he saw the world. He showed equal interest towards me. We even spoke of our own goals for marriage and dating with the hope of marriage. We spoke beyond just a dynamic (of course not rushing into anything but sharing hopes for ‘the right person’ and our own lives) I just find it so difficult to wrap my head around the whole thing. The only thing he required/ requested of me so far as far as a dynamic goes is to share a brief summary of any dreams I had upon waking up, spend a picture of the outfit I was going to wear for the day, and at night share three meaningful moments that happened throughout the day. So wholesome🥺

Even in his last message he was so detailed with his response and displayed eagerness to continue a relationship with me. I feel so foolish because this whole thing happened in FOUR DAYS but I’m here genuinely feeling heartbroken. I desperately want him to come back.

So why do you think this happened? Am I insane for feeling this way?

Any insight would be appreciated.

Edit

Follow up question: if he wanted to ghost, why wouldn’t he just block me instead of stop responding? Nothing makes sense😭

I want him to come back and there be this great, reasonable explanation that makes perfect sense and everything go back to how it was.

Also… it was him who wanted to call for so long and was eager to talk, (obviously me too but) I was always the one having to go to bed or leave the call. I wasn’t being obsessive or insisting we talk as much as we did or anything… I don’t get it. Caught me totally off guard.