I’ve been “in the know” about any sort of littles for about 2 years now and I’m honestly still confused about where I stand personally with all the different variations.

I started out leaning purely into the sexual side of being a little, and then I swung completely the opposite way, to no sexual anything, ever.

Now I’m feeling like there needs to be a balance because I’m learning that I slip into littlespace pretty immediately following any sexual activities, and there have been times where I’m in littlespace, and I think it switches to more of a sub-space? Ngl I’m just generally confused about everything.

Please do take this with a grain of salt though because I have zero experience with anything irl. I mean I have stuffies and onesies and pacis and whatever, but I’ve never interacted with people in person, while in that headspace and or/ever been in a relationship.

Sooo I guess I’m asking, how do You define DDLG/how would explain the difference between like CGL, DDLG, age play, age regression, etc. And how do I know what’s right for me?

Thanks in advance, I know this was probably clear as mud