I have always been a very submissive woman. My Daddy (husband) and I have a very honest relationship. What I’m struggling with is being the one who brings up any changes. I know that the submissive has control. I need more I find myself being a mix between a 14 year old challenge every rule vs whom I want to be when I’m honest. I’m about a 5/6 year old in my beliefs and my playfulness. However, without thought I find myself challenging the rules. Once I know they’re real I love them. I need to know they’re real not just suggestions.

Yes I know that can be considered a brat. I truly don’t mean to be. I just need consistency

How do I explain this to my love without feeling like he’s only doing it because I crave it?