Hello! I am looking for alternatives for collars. My current collar is a big chunky lock on a dog chain specifically. My owner/Daddy and I consider our collar My engagement ring. (We are married) However, the big chunky lock tends to make other men stare or flirt or make comments on it when I'm out in public. Sometimes women do it too. It's starting to make me uncomfortable.

I want to switch it to something less obvious. Something that could be more sentimental to the both of us. Also something chubby friendly? If its possible?? I've tried simple necklaces from forever 21 and then find out later when I wear it my neck is too big. It's one of the reasons I wear a long dog chain so it isn't choking me. Any recommendations are happily appreciated and welcomed. Thank you for reading this.