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I'm only in my second real ddlg partnership and I've noticed that compared to my first daddy, the one I have now doesn't "do" anything to make me slip.
I usually gravitate to my phone to text him when I'm stressed or feeling little, for attention. We have amazing communication except he goes to bed super early and I'm clingy so I miss him lol. I tend to be little at night mostly too so I'm often left to my own devices 🤣 and I'm toxic to myself soooo.
Either way, on the one hand, my first daddy played with me/tickled me/put on kiddie cartoons and brought me toys/stuffies/outfits and baby books and gave me my binky and kissed me. 8 times out of 10 I'd slip so I was used to being Little me when we were together for the most part but it feels very different from my current Daddy.
With him, just being around him makes me feel like I have to be baby. The size difference definitely has a lot to do with it. I feel like he's really powerful but makes sure to treat me extra carefully. He takes excellent care of me, getting me food whenever and replacing my binkies after I lost them and my cat chewed it up. I feel special. But moreover, his voice melts me but at the same time I have to stand to attention in my head because I want to hang on his every word. Its still a pretty new relationship too, so I dont think he realizes the effect he has on me or even that I'm little once I get to that point. Is that really a thing?
Old daddy became very neglectful and distant over a short period of time. We had a lot of problems with intimacy and such, plus, instead of breaking up with me he just blocked me... so I really don't miss him. My Daddy now is very extremely affectionate, I love our skin to skin time and i couldn't ask for mores kisses. I'm not used to being so spoiled in my normal day to day but theres something I cant put my finger on here. Is that normal or am I more unaware of how dramatic I am than I thought?
I chalk it up to my inexperience and all the adult things I'm dealing with but I dunno. Im curious what other littles and daddies think about it.
Is it different Daddying styles, personallites or?
I feel really bad and a somewhat guilty for compairing them BTW but I cant help it. The only other comparisons I have are from wattpad stories and my imagination where everything is perfect so I can't be realistic.
I'm really nervous but I will work on it one day. Thanks for the advice and encouragement ❤️💖
No. I understand that. I meant more like should I still expect those things if I'm already feeling little? Because like I said I might literally just explode from that because of how it would make me feel.
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Even if I already am little? I can't imagine how deep in headspace I'd go if he actually did put the binky in my mouth. I might get too annoying or get overstimulated explode. 🙃