I'm the Daddy that you've been looking for. I'm an excellent caregiver with no one to care for at the moment. I need my babygirl and you need a loving Daddy. I'm looking for a ddlg, d/s relationship. I'm looking for kink and intimacy. I want it all.

A little about me:

• I'm a natural caregiver. I need someone to nurture. I am not whole without you.
• I have a "good job" designing software for a giant, evil health insurance company. I work from home in Center City, Philly. I have a ton of flexibility, which is nice.
• I’m an indie rocker and generally creative. I write songs and letters that don’t suck. Slowly working on an album. When we match up, I’ll send links to my music if you’re interested. Do you have creative outlets? If so, I want to hear all about them!
• I love the water. I try to get to into the rec center pool every day. (It just closed for the season. I'm sad!) It's so good for the soul to be in the water, under the sky. I haven't been to the beach in far too long. Even being near a body of water is relaxing. Let's make it happen!
• Philly is my default city. Over the past 20 years, I’ve lived in Philly, NYC, Upstate NY, DC, Czech Republic, Israel, Houston… I was a consultant, so I moved around a lot. That said, part of me dreams of escaping the city to someplace with water, trees, and parking. Let’s fantasize about our dream house. That’s always fun…
• I'm am politically liberal. We won't get along if you're not.
• I have a little kitty. She is sweet and she has leukemia. That means you need to give her extra love.
• Attraction is important. I'm reasonably fit and I'm told I have a good face. You can decide for yourself. I’ll send pics once you reach out. I’ll expect the same.
• Vaxed, boosted, and regularly STI tested.
• I'm open to a long-term relationship if we hit it off. I'd love to find my person but we have to start somewhere.

About you:

• You are a good girl. I can tame a brat (and that can be fun from time to time) but brats can be exhausting after a while.
• You want to curl up with Daddy. You love affection and praise.
• You are sexy but not trashy. Comfy clothes are way sexier than a teddy. Cute clothes are cute. You are feminine but not high-maintenance girly.
• You are empathetic and emotionally intelligent. You are kind and a giver. You love to please. You love to say, "Yes, Daddy." You love when I tell you that you're a good girl.
• You love to surrender yourself to me. Submission gets you hot and helps you turn your brain off. Your obedience turns me on.
• Smart is sexy. Clever is irresistible. I often want to say that I’m clever but then I’m reminded of the following quote:“Years ago, in my earliest and pastiest days as a would-be writer, I once read a new story aloud to S. and Boo Boo. When I was finished, Boo Boo said flatly (but looking over at Seymour) that the story was “too clever.” S. shook his head, beaming away at me, and said cleverness was my permanent affliction, my wooden leg, and that it was in the worst possible taste to draw the group’s attention to it. As one limping man to another, old Zooey, let’s be courteous and kind to each other.”

Here are some things I like:

Movies: Wings of Desire, The Jerk, Secretary, Reuben & Ed, Sid & Nancy, Bill & Ted, Harold & Maude, Blade Runner, Annie Hall, Rear Window, Zombieland, Better Off Dead, Scott Pilgrim, Shaun of the Dead, Spinal Tap!, Pootie Tang, Can’t Hardly Wait, Cabin in the Woods, Fargo, Let the Right One In, 28 Days Later, 30 Days of Night, Dawn of the Dead (both).

TV: Bob’s Burgers, Always Sunny, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Community, Troy and Abed in the Morning, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly (pretty much anything sci-fi), Sherlock, MST3k, I Think You Should Leave, Fleabag, Broad City, Baby Billy’s Bible Bonkers, What We Do In The Shadows, Kids in the Hall.

Books: The Murderbot Diaries, The Bobiverse, Day by Day Armageddon, (Lots of the classics) Salinger, Kundera, Confederacy of Dunces, To Kill a Mockingbird (Fun fact: this was written by Bruce Lee’s sister, Harper.)

Poetry: The plum poem is the shit, right? If you know, you know. If you don't know, ask me. You're going to love it.

Music:

• I made a Spotify playlist of random songs I like.
• I'm going to meet Cat Power next week.
• I need a date for Black Francis' Wedding.
• Ask me why I feel bad about Elliot Smith. (This story is probably more than I want to type into my phone so I'll tell you when we move to a better chat than Reddit.)

(There are way too many catfish on this site. I'll ask you to verify that you are real relatively quickly. This can be done with a short little vid on a secure, anonymous app.)

Looking forward to hearing from you. Now, be a good girl and say hi!