Hello there, I’m Nick. 6’, 185lbs, and HWP…there’s a couple recent pics on my profile. I’m an empty-nester who works from home and has a small circle to boot, so I have ample time to devote to someone special. Fiercely missing having a dynamic of late; DD/lg completes me in a way more vanilla relationships simply can’t touch. Speaking of vanilla….

Hobbies & Interests

• Hiking and long walks: A fantastic way to get some exercise in and see new areas, I will be getting a state park pass in 2025. 
• Cooking: I’m a strong home cook who shows love in the kitchen, I WILL make you homemade soup when you’re sick. 
• Reading: Have a shelf full of Stephen King and various randoms, voracious reader of fiction. 
• Bar games: Darts, cornhole, pool, etc. Skill level has more variance than I’d like but they’re all fun, which is the point!
• Gaming: I own all three current gen consoles, and would love to be with a gamer Princess little. Were it NOT a shared hobby, just know that it’d be reserved solely for time apart…no way a bunch of pixels could ever usurp my girl!
• Fishing: I’m no pro by any means but I have fun and catch/release…it’s definitely a chill, relaxing hobby.
• Kayaking or tubing rivers: Both are great times, I WILL be tubing some rivers this summer as I’ve only done it once but thoroughly adored it. 
• New Restaurants/cuisines: I’m very much a foodie and would enjoy sharing that commonality with my little. I know many great restaurants in my area of the state and am always game for new ones.
• Shows/movies: Especially in the winter when it’s hibernatin’ time. I enjoy sci-fi, fantasy, horror, action…think Sopranos, Peaky Blinders, Mandalorian, Punisher, Game of Thrones, The Last of Us. American Horror Story, etc. 
• Farmer’s Markets: Best place to find quality produce and unique ingredients too. 

There’s surely more; live music, stand up comedy (Bill Burrrrr!), festivals and fairs…just getting out and living life, ya know? I’m of the opinion virtually anything can be fun with the right company. Am I the “right company” for you? Quite probably, I’ve done extensive self-work…but here’s the key points of who I am as a person: 

Personality 

• Honest: The ultimate foundation for anything lasting, you’ll never get less than the absolute truth from me. 
• Loving/affectionate: Physical touch and quality time are my love languages. You’ll never wonder where you stand with me; PDA’s, messages, spoken words. *Self promotion warning* I take tremendous pride that both of my most recent exes told me unprompted that I made them feel like “the only girl in the world” - absolutely my intent!
• Goofy/funny: I’m a playful, witty bastard who uses humor often to deal with life. Definitely capable of being a serious shoulder to lean on but I default to goofball. 
• Loyal: Not seeking perfection and won’t bail at the first hiccup…looking to build a lasting “happily ever-after”.
• Emotionally intelligent: I know how to identify what I’m feeling/needing and communicate it properly. 
• Kind/empathetic: I always lead with manners. Never take things out on those in service industries and dislike those who do (couldn’t match with someone like that). 

Those are the key points, as I said earlier I’ve done tons of self-work and am very proud of who I’ve become. But what about YOU, how do you know what I’m looking for, beyond the broad umbrella of a DD/lg dynamic? Well, continue on to find out… ;) 

Partner Priorities

• Honesty: ‘nuff said. 

• Affectionate: I existed for far too much of my adult life in a dead marriage, so I need a partner who enjoys affection as much as I do. “Clingy” is just fine!

• 420 friendly: I’ve come to learn this is a requirement…I love getting blazed with my partner when we’re just vibing. I smoke buds (I irrationally hate the industry term “flower” lol) and enjoy gummies/edibles, however you choose to consume is fine with me though. 

• Few kink limits: I’ll touch on my favorites as I continue on this, my lengthiest post ever on Reddit ha. My only limits are scat, puke, and other men - I don’t share, but also will never ask to be shared in the interest of fairness. 

• Common interests: It need not be every interest, but shared interests are a big foundational piece of lasting love. 

• Age gap: For me an age gap enhances the feeling of being a mentor/protector, of being Daddy, so you should be 21-35 (open to discussion if you’re close on either end).

• IRL as an endgame: Open to as much distance as you’re willing to cover halfway for a first meeting, but wish to meet within several weeks of chatting and cohabitation is the eventual goal. Beholden to remaining in Wisco but am wildly open to relocating therein when living with a partner becomes appropriate. 

• Baseline attraction: I have zero expectations of someone being “10/10”, but attraction must exist. I love petite ladies I can throw over the shoulder and manhandle, but also enjoy curves and play very well with them…I don’t have a set type, in other words. I’ve dated many different ethnicities so that matters not at all. 

So that list is what I’m prioritizing in my search…nothing outrageous and should be pretty easy to match IMO. I do have some things I’m incompatible with; so if they’re part of who you are I genuinely wish you all the best in your search but please pass me by:

Incompatibilities

• ENM/Poly: Simply doesn’t work with who I am, not trying to yuck anyone's yum. 
• Online-only: I am seeking an LTR/ideally “forever” in-person. 
•  Wanting kids: If you HAVE kids that’s just fine; best thing I’ve done in my life is being a father, so I dig kiddos and understand their introduction would need to be handled with care/appropriate timing. However, I do not wish to have more of my own.
•  Explorers: My term for those who connect to have discussions around kinks and such but with no intent of ever meeting (different from “online only” as they often don’t specify). I’d ask you to please miss me if that’s what you’re into, it’s exhausting to me and the opposite of what I’m seeking. 

Well, I’ve covered quite a bit so far…now let’s get to the spicy stuff shall we? I’m a Pleasure Daddy, so I want to do all of the things that turn you into a trembling puddle of pleasure. Part of why I love DD/lg is the way we can tailor our dynamic to suit our needs so specifically…with that in mind, here are the baseline kinks I enjoy. 

Favorite kinks

• Orgasm denial/edgies: Picture it…we’re vibing on the couch with your head in my lap, kissing passionately as my fingers work expertly under your skirt. I feel you begin to tremble and squirm, and right at the precipice I completely switch up my approach, gazing at you with a loving smirk as your eyes slowly open in surprise at not cumming. I LOVE IT (and you’ll always get cummies with me, unless you’ve really acted up). 
• Sensory play: I would happily invest in an eStim kit if my little were equally intrigued, and I’ve got some brand new items on hand waiting. What I dig about it is how easily it can transition to…
• Overstimulation: Let me see just how many cummies you can handle, then shoot for several more. 
• Anal: Training, giving oral, sex, creampies…I enjoy butt stuff, full stop.  
• Spanking and slapping: Ass, tits, pussy are my focal points, open to discussions around your desires though. Have a brand new flog, paddle and crop waiting hehe. 
• Breathplay: Always start off gentle as I want to learn my partner’s tolerance and preference…safety first. 

I’m probably missing some but am trying to get this completed before the next election cycle lol. I do wish to formally collar my partner at some point, so bonus points if that’s important to you too. I want to specify that while I’m not opposed to formal age regressors (and expect I’d be proficient), that’s not a path I’ve gone down to this point. My DD/lg relationships have been less "formal" than that, with the broad strokes below:

My DD/lg Resume

• Age-gap focused: As mentioned, it lends extra realism to the Daddy role. I’m open to leaning into it in public for our mutual amusement/enjoyment if that sounds enjoyable to you. 
• Princess treatment: Boxing up your leftovers at a restaurant, opening doors, pulling out chairs, cooking your favorite things, washing your back OR everything, etc. (Amazing treatment is reciprocal of course, bears mention even if I’ve never had any issues in it being so.) 
• Pet names: Obviously I’m Daddy; you’d be Princess, Babygirl, or whatever cute term of endearment makes you feel like the most special little in the world. 
• Playfulness: Adding “ie” to words; cummies, edgies, kissies, etc. Playful teasing and inside jokes. Randomly tickling you, maybe playing with your hair. 
• Dominance: I will take the lead, make the decisions and ultimately be the Daddy you’re happy to submit to every day. 

I’m gonna wrap this up, you’re certainly well-informed enough to know if I’m someone worth exploring at this point. I hold myself to an exceedingly high standard as a Daddy, so know I will NEVER introduce a vibe I cannot maintain. I just want to love and be loved, to know and be known, by one special girl. It’s nothing that can be forced and I wouldn’t want to even if it could; I’ll know you when I find you. Thanks so much for reading and all the best if I’m not to your tastes…crazy time to be looking for something real.