I took my previous post down because I got so overwhelmed with responses, but in all of that I still haven’t found just what I’m looking for.

Ultimately I need a mental and emotional connection. Over anything else. I need a rapport and for our conversations to flow with ease, our senses of humor to mesh, for us to be on the same wavelength naturally. If that’s not present nothing else will work or is worth it. I don’t want either of us bored or unfulfilled.

I prefer people in the 35-50ish range. 99% of the people who reach out to me are men (which is fine) but if you’re a female who considers herself a Daddy, please step to the front 🥹

Please be kind (but with a sadistic streak of course), communicative, empathetic, emotionally aware, stern, loving, structured, open minded, protective, creative. Please don’t demand honorifics off the bat or start calling me pet names 🤢. Please don’t demand my time within days of knowing me/get upset when I don’t answer you right away, please don’t start in with sexually charged talk right off the bat either. Respect consent. Realize we are not in a dynamic until we BOTH agree and discuss.

On that note, I am NOT in a rush to enter into a dynamic and I hope you’re not either. Let’s build a friendship. Let’s build trust. Let’s actually have some sort of a solid foundation to create something wonderful from. Ultimately, yes, I’d like a LTR, something close to a 24/7 power exchange, but this is special to me and I don’t want it with just anyone.

Me:

Shy but can talk for hours with the right person. Someone of depth, who appreciates conversations that go beyond surface level but understands there are many times and places for small talk. Lover of music (I play guitar, feel at peace at concerts, collect vinyl). Creative (I try to write, draw and create in general when I can.) Forever addressing and working on my mental health. Loves horror movies and psychological thrillers as well as true crime. Loves good food and wine and exploring new restaurants. Road trips. The solar system. Astrology. Museums. Nature.

Some kinks:

DDlg, CNC, TPE, stingy impact play, nipple torture, water sports, breath play, knife play, anal training, orgasm control and denial, ruined orgasms, light bondage, etc.

Limits:

scat, vomit, anything illegal, having my belly button touched

I hope you actually read this before messaging me. Send me a song/band recommendation when you reach out. And please say more than “hi, how are you?” I prefer chat over messages

Looking forward to meeting some interesting people 😇 💕