You know something is missing? You are suffering from a mental health issue and you have heard bdsm can provide some needed discipline. You are looking for a Dom who will love you, care for you and understand you mental health issues, or you are just very curious and want to explore your submissive side and have a meaningful conversation.

You have so many questions?

What does submission mean? What is a Dom? What does the training entail? What is the different dynamics? Do we need a contract? Is it safe? And so much more..?

I am from Hampshire, England looking for a new submissive for online or in person ( if English) just to clarify but happy to have a conversation and connect. 54 year mature gentlemen, fit, diligent, loving, caring, hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Disciplined in my own life, with strict values so ideally positioned to add discuss your discipline needs. I have a good attitude / character with defined goals for myself so I can help mentor and coach you to set and achieve your goals for growth whether these are physical, emotional, mental or sexual. They could be goals around pain, tolerance, being more assertive, confident and resilient, etc..not an exhaustive list clearly.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety and consensual trust relationship and managed by a contract. Lets start a slow burner and explore how you feel about punishment and pain?lets talk about your goals. Typically, initial training is over a few weeks. We then review and determine together next steps. The training is supported by a contract which maps out the framework and boundaries of the relationship and includes typically: routines, protocols, structure, expectations, hard and soft limits, kinks and non negotiables, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, role play, edging or general sexting, etc. Ask me about any of these, including help with morning, day and evening routines, food, hydration, exercise etc. Are you clingy, needy or bratty no problem I will no make you feel bad about this. Bratty is my Oreo cookie.

I would be interested in getting to know you first as part of understanding your needs. So definitely a slow burner. Available to chat during the day and night depending on our limits online.

This dynamic with me will suit a woman who is willing to explore bdsm curiously but seriously as the dynamics are emotionally challenging and hard work. It will also suit someone who loves to banter and appreciates innuendos, adventure and becoming a co-pilot.

Make a connection today and become my new co-pilot or lets just have a chat. Tell me abit about you and what you looking for and say alittle about why my ad intrigues you. Thank you!