Hello!

My name is Bam, 32 Male(Primal/Soft Dom). Latin/6ft/average body type(still working on it)/long black hair/bearded.

Vanilla life: I'm a security officer for a storage trailer park and hopefully I'm able to travel after this operation works. A good reason to leave this small town I'm in. I mostly game, but if not, I'm exercising, walking, or just watching videos about stuff I like.

Mental personality: I can only say I'm very conservative. Not political-wise, but socially. I tend to listen and understand more than trying to make or start conversations. I do tend to make conversations, but if I know it is a good segway from the previous one. I'm very conscious and overthink, but doesn't mean I won't say what I'm thinking right there and then. From the vibe I pick up from any interaction, I'll choose my words with the.assumption to not hurt people's feelings. Might be good for everyone around me, but not for me. This is why I do want a person who isn't afraid to ask questions or have nuance in things, knowing what I'm saying isn't a dagger to kill.

BDSM/Kink lifestyle: It's been sheltered for about 12 years, now, but it doesn't mean I am rusty in knowing what I am into. I have a high sex drive and this is one of the categories that people frown upon, so I tend to put this information up front. Helps with the journey of finding what I want in a person. I also like learning from other people what they are into, even when I'm not into it. My position of being dominate doesn't harden my views that I still need to learn, since everyone isn't the same. I take my time to vet and want to learn about that person before anything happens or follow up with how I feel about the person I'm vetting. Emotional feelings can sway people to think one thing when they haven't completely finished vetting or learning enough about the person they are talking to, and can lead to a disastrous relationship.

Kinks: •Bondage(doesn't have to be rope) •Primal play(power struggle/making my prey feel helpless) •Mind breaking(mentally conquering and manipulation) •CNC •Roleplaying(Taboo) •Full control •Punishment and Edging

Relationship I want: Well, what I want in a relationship is a DD/LG(Daddy/Daughter connection) where I decide what you should be doing and guide you when you are stumped. I also want a relationship where progressive can fit in the traditional connection. Open-minded, but also conservative in their actions and speaking their minds. Communication is key and a relationship will not go anywhere without interaction, even if it sparks a debate or an argument. How are we gonna get over anything if we can't analyze and cherish each other's flaws? I do also want a constant sexual interactions. It doesn't have to be "sex", but just flirtatious texts that leads to sexting, sending cute and sexy pics that could get me in trouble at work, phone sex...you get the idea. I get that people can be SFW or wants platonic relationships, and I don't think thats a bad thing, but like I mentioned before...I have a high drive. I want a long term relationship, something I know that it won't break, even after an argument. It a pity to see how many relationships are torn just over someone's opinions. I remembered a couple years ago that always head-butt in everything, like music or political views, but their relationship was strong. A fight or two will happen, in a day. I want someone who is able to take anything, and can think about the consequences before they do, or make a conversation about it, and I would fall on all fours with appreciation for the effort you will bring to keep the relationship going. Since I want a long term, I want to be with a person who is also thinking about their future and want to start a family. This might cut off alot of people, but I don't mind. I really want to put my whole heart and effort in one person. Monogamy is my preference, and I don't want to share at all. I'm a bit possessive, over protective and jealous being(not to the point where you can't have friends, but when I notice something off or you are letting others to touch you inappropriately, that's where my gloves comes off)

What I would like in a person: Height difference is a huge turn on for me. 5'3 and under is unbelievably gorgeous for me. Body type can be from range skinny to curvy(thicc). I am also want to keep up with their health and hygiene. If I'm putting work to keep myself looking better as I age, I would also want my partner to give it their all as well to be in shape. Age can vary, but preferably, between 18 to 25. The cutting-it line is actually 35. Just to make this clear; LOYALTY!!! Loyalty is something I could not find in my previous relationship 12 years ago, and I really am in that cherry-picking position where if I feel like there won't be any sense of loyalty, I will politely give my thanks for your time and effort, but I will stop any communication that we were having. I really don't care if you have guy friends or you are working and stuff...but the loyalty, by definition, is broken or is shown that is taken for granted, I will cut everything off.

Conclusion: I do apologize for a long ad-post, but I want to put at least everything I want on here. I know I left some stuff, but that's the best part. You will find out within the vetting process.