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32 [M4F] #Anywhere/#Online - Looking for an intense relationship with sprinkles of DDLG, D/S, and M/S
Let me start with potential deal breakers.
- I'm not located in the US/Canada/EU. However, I'm looking for a serious relationship that starts online and then translates to an IRL.
- Not looking for something that's going to stay online.
- I'm not bound to any place. So open to relocation. However, I want to stay on the move. Looking for a partner who seeks the same.
- I'm child-free. And I don't want that to change
- I crave both the darker and softer aspects of BDSM. So definitely not a soft dom. And I crave the harsher/darker aspects of it.
With those out of the way, let's dwell on why we are really here.
About me:
- Polyglot who speaks 4 languages
- Lived in three countries so far
- Can be silent and mind my own business and usually in a corner until I feel like taking over. I don't really like the spotlight unless it's on my terms. I'm not on any social media but more than happy to verify
- Have a pretty hard exterior personality that I rarely let others see past
- Have been described as someone with a pretty intense personality
- Never afraid to speak and rarely keep thing bottled up
- Quite spontaneous: As in moved to a new country on a whim
- My personality varies from one extreme to the other. Just like my kinks
- A good listener and I Need a deep emotional and mental connection. I'm not looking to waste your time. I will be upfront and direct about it if I feel that things aren't ideal
- I'm quite jealous and possessive. I ask way too many questions if I'm interested.
- I don't fuck around. Loyal to a fault.
Who You might be:
- Playful. As in you like being a brat or enjoy being a tease
- Deeply emotional and complex. Nothing intrigues me more than a complex person who's curious and loves to talk
- Bold and confident. Is comfortable in her own skin. And chaotic
- Enjoys being controlled or puppeteered from the shadows
- Spontaneous
- Willing to go on a ride that's bruising, emotional and sensual
- Is capable of being captivating
- Isn't a goody goody person. Has a mean/dark side to her
- Can string more than a few sentences in responses.
What would be involved in the relationship:
Hopefully it's a relationship where we feel like our souls in intertwined and bound to each other. I like taking care of my significant other. While kink would make up a huge part of the relationship, I expect us to become inseparable friends. Yeah, there definitely be moments when you'd be wearing a toy in public and I'd be changing the setting at the worst moment possible. Yeah, there will be days when I proudly show my ownership over your mind, body and soul with bruises, hickeys or collars. If I ever suspect someone flirting with you, expect me to just interrupt the conversation for an inappropriate kiss. And be okay with me telling exactly what I want from you in any given moment. I have a clear idea of what my needs are and I hope you do too. Do expect me to push you onto a wall to kiss you until you are out of breath, all hot and bothered with my hands all over you only to have me walk away with a smirk. There will be times where we often end up being late to stuff because I couldn't resist keeping my hands to myself. Yeah, I do understand that there will be ups and down. Given my personality, expect higher peaks and lower troughs.
Kinks: There are way too many to list but here are the top ones. I do understand that some of these require a lot of trust on both sides.
Teasing, Orgasm Denial and Control
Manipulation
Wardrobe and appearance control (Open to the idea of bimbofication, ownership tattoos)
Consensual Intoxication
Roleplaying (Taboo, CNC,....)
DDLG (Though, I wouldn't really call it a kink per se. More of a dynamic that just a kink)
Discreet public play (Also, discreet toys in public)
Sexual and nonsexual tasks and behavior modification
Reaching out to me:
A detailed long response would most certainly get me interested. If you struggle with introduction, I do have a list of questions that I would like to have answered right away.
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