Hello. For the header, I'm seeking a Dom/sub relationship where we both invest mutual effort.

IMPORTANT NOTICE!

I am not interested in any kind of paid services, including Doms who require tribute, fees, or any form of payment. I am looking for a genuine relationship.

Be aware! I am pre-everything trans, so I still live my normal male life for now.

I am looking for both male and female Doms. I must admit, I am bi-curious and identify as trans. I have wanted to transition but haven't started the process yet. I am seeking someone who will initiate and control the transition process, fully influencing it as they see fit.

P.S.: I view male Doms as potential owners due to their inherent dominant traits. Ideally, I seek a Domme (Female or MtF).

I firmly believe in the importance of trust and communication in any relationship, whether D/s or vanilla. Therefore, I expect you to value these essentials. Losing connection or communication can ruin the relationship we build. Trust is not given simply because you are a Dom. I have been scammed and experienced many negative aspects of online seeking.

Online:

If you wish to build a relationship with me purely online, please be aware of the following points:

• Online relationships can be tricky when it comes to real feelings. You need to understand that you will still have your own life and real relationships. Otherwise, it won't be fulfilling, and you may lose interest and ghost.
• We need to be clear and transparent about our schedules and avoid leaving conversations abruptly, as this leads to confusion and uncertainty.

IMPORTANT: I value a true and genuine connection, so you need to be comfortable with voice and video calls once we establish initial trust. I enjoy hearing my partner's voice, whether male, female, or trans, and I will be understanding about potential voice dysphoria.

IRL:

• If you are interested in real-life scenarios, be aware that I am open to a relationship/dynamic involving relocation as a live-in slave or a regular D/s relationship.
• We need to meet a few times before engaging in something serious.

Experience:

Unfortunately, I have encountered many people who faked their genuineness. Therefore, trusting people's expectations, plans, and words is extremely hard. I thought voice and video calls would help me spot any fakeness, but I was wrong. People often believe in their genuineness until things become real, at which point they cannot cope, chicken out, or never intended to engage in a lasting relationship. So, ask yourself if you are truly genuine about engaging in a relationship with me initially (I am well aware that the final decision will be made later).

Kink wise/What I'm looking for:

• I am looking for someone who likes to fully control me and turn me into a bimbo. This includes setting up full surveillance over me, controlling where I go, what I do, how I dress, etc.
• I offer a loyal and genuine lifelong slave (myself). I am willing to provide as much blackmail material as needed to ensure I follow your commands, even if they are extreme.
• I am really into power dynamics, forced feminization, bimbofication, humiliation, objectification, degradation, CNC, orgasm control, etc.

My limits are quite narrow, excluding widely recognized taboos such as toilet play and bestiality.

Motives wise, I am still discovering my true motives. I have realized that I lean towards being trans and have considered transitioning. This is deeply connected to my interest in humiliation (a form of masochism), as the most humiliating thing for a male (in my experience) is to be forcibly feminized, bimbofied, and controlled entirely.

How to approach:

I didn't expect to need to explain how to approach, but based on my experience, 90% of people start with just "hi." I cannot decide whether to engage in a conversation if I don't know who you are or what you are looking for. A thoughtful introduction is necessary, though it doesn't need to be a poem. Please include the word "blueberry" so I know you read everything I wrote.

If you liked my post and want to support me, please upvote it ⬆️. I wish you all the best in finding your perfect match ☺️