My boss has been extra cagey around working emails during our spare time. She messages everyone personally to work emails in between calls and chats. At the same time when I'm working emails as taught she is reopening them and leaving passive aggressive notes or messaging me saying I put it in a spam status when I can see the ticket that shows I didn't.

I'm already dealing with a lot (main caregiver for my Dad who has dementia, my own chronic illnesses, and my abusive ex who is stalking me and threatening to kill me or sexually assault me) and this is just the cherry on top. Am I overreacting? Everything else at my place of employment is great. Just this one thing.

Should I tell my boss what is going on or should I keep quiet and just plug along as best as possible? If it helps, my boss is a 40 year old female and I am a 35 year old female. Thanks in advance