Wife made a custody offer

My soon to be ex wife made an offer to me through my lawyer. I get 60% primary custody. She picked the schedule. Which is fine. Also I get first rite of refusal. And she has to give me extended notice of vacations.

I know getting first rite of refusal is huge. I am able to watch my kids anytime. And wish they could just live at home. But my wife left and we are divorcing so it is what it is. My attorney is fearful the judge will be frustrated that we (her mostly), wont communicate and work things out and just give 50/50 and set a schedule which would really screw over my ex more than me. And I most likely wouldn’t get first rite of refusal with the judge. I wanted 70/30 setup.

Do you all think I should save money and time and take my ex’s deal?

Does anyone have any suggestions of things that could be helpful in the agreement?