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I’m concerned about my exes action as well as how I handle the situation. I feel there is nothing I can do that will end pleasantly and I know nothing I try will be accepted by her. Situation below.
My daughter is 2 1/2. We share 50/50 custody with a 2-2-5-5 schedule and are allotted 15 minutes of video call a day. We are not to interfere and all discussion is suppose to be with help between us during this time. We also have a clause no chastising, insulting, or putting down the other parent in front of the children.
It started a while back she would create false accusation and type out a story of something. That didn’t happen. I suspect this will be an attempt to use it in court later. Since she has started saying I’m interfering the call if I answer the phone and my face shows up in the screen before giving it to my daughter. My daughter also doesn’t like phone calls and would rather play and do other things so she tends to throw a fit to not talk on the phone. If I try and calm my daughter my ex is in the other side telling me to giver her the phone or put it down I’m interfering with the call. Now I have two mad sides and it just makes the situation worse. Then later comes the messages I was yelling g and my daughter and causing her to get upset etc.
At this point I really don’t want to deal with and can’t take much more of this. I offer the phone and when my ex tell me to stop Interrupting I put the phone down, tell my daughter it’s right her mommy want to talk to her and walk away.
Can this come back to bite me, has anyone had experience with something like this. How would handle the situation if you had to? Thank you everyone
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