Toys are only useful if they’re in working order.

Consider your diet.

Get some exercise. Stretch or do yoga.

Take care of your personal hygiene.

Brush your teeth twice a day. Floss.

Take care of your health, physical and mental.

Wear clothes that don’t make you shrink from attention or try to go unnoticed. Don’t leave the house looking and feeling like shit.

Do leave the house.

Develop some confidence. Offer something to the world.

For many men — maybe most — it’s much more fun to have a fully capable, outwardly desirable woman choking herself on your cock than a dead-eyed, depressing mess of unwashed hair and lack of sunlight. If he wants you that way, he’ll do it. But start things off by being your best self. Give him something of value to degrade.

Make yourself pretty for men and watch how your life improves. Do it for Him if you can’t do it for yourself. He can adjust you as he sees fit.

Give him something worth having.