First off, it's ok. You're allowed to cheat. You're allowed to fuck anyone you want to. As much as you want to. No guilt, no shame, no negativity at all. Your sexuality, your passion, your desires, your needs, your pleasure, it's all beautiful to me. I'll love you so much more because of it. Fuck anyone and everyone you want to. Fuck people who are bigger or smaller than me. Who fuck you differently than me. Fuck people who look like me or look like anyone else. Fuck your exes, or don't. Fuck men or women. It doesn't matter, you'll never cross any lines because I don't have them. Because all I ask from you is honesty, disclosure, mutual two way trust which I'm comfortable earning by treating you well consistently, and I ask that you reserve your heart for me and not give that to any of the men you fuck. You're allowed to make love to me after fucking other men and there's no amount of sloppy or stretched out that's unappealing to me. Yes, I'll eat your pussy if you're creampied and I'll kiss you if you've been sucking cocks. If you're concerned about anything, talk to me. I want us to have open and honest communication and trust.

I want to be best friends, partners, lovers, paramores, confidantes, and to be the people we both feel comfortable going to and leaning on. I want phone calls, text messages, dopey smiles, dumb laughs, cuddles, and hours spent talking about dumb shit. I want deep conversations, vulnerability, helping eachother heal the scars this world gives us all, and being genuinely supportive of one another. I want to watch TV with you, play video games with you, hear all about your favorite books or nerdy hobbies, and I want to hold your hand and tell you that you're amazing. I want to dance with you in the rain and I want to kiss you and tell you how much better my life is with you in it. And sometimes I want to kiss you while we're on a nice romantic date knowing that you're full of someone elses cum because I was lucky enough to choose a woman who's sexuality is intense and beautiful enough to make me weak in the knees, who's heart is a furnace of love and desire and passions, and who I'm fortunate enough to cultivate an amazing relationship with. And yes, I mean every single word of this. And yes, I'm willing to do what it takes to help you feel safe and comfortable trusting that there are no hidden land mines and no hidden catch. I'm just a human being and I won't be perfect, but there is no catch here. Yes, I have flaws, but I promise that being jealous and insecure about my woman enriching both of our lives with her vibrant sexuality won't be among my quirks. I may annoy the hell out of you with some of my nerdy hobbies, or by being weird and eccentric, but hey, better than being boring right?

And for the record, I accept weird, broken, and eccentric. You can't be too much of any of those things for me, so please feel comfortable sharing your weird with me. I intend to make it a safe space to be ourselves freely and without judgement.