I've been avoiding this label for a long time, mostly because of the humiliation aspect that I assumed was present. I'm not sure if I'm into that bit yet, I've only just been willing to admit to myself and my partner that I get off on being a... cuckquean.

Over the last 2 years, I've very slowly discovered that I enjoy watching my other half fuck other women. Its bizarre, and wonderful and I fucking love it. I love hearing him talk about it, I love watching it, I love helping out... gah, I'm supposed to be at work and instead I'm just turned on.

What am I here for? Advice, support and somewhere to talk about it because the vast majority of people in my life are not those I can share this with!

Any advice for a new person? Especially one for whom the label feels taboo and more than a little alien?