I’ve been reflecting on our dynamic lately, and I can’t stop thinking about how incredibly turned on I am by seeing Him with other women. There’s something so deeply exciting about it for me—watching Him be desired, watching Him experience pleasure with someone else. It’s not just the thought of Him with another woman; it’s the way it makes Him feel that gets to me. I can see how it boosts His confidence, how it reminds Him just how valuable He truly is. And that’s something I love—the way it makes Him even more Himself, more fired up, more the Dom I crave.

Next week, He has another solo session planned with a woman I encouraged Him to explore with. He never asked for this, never suggested it—this was all my idea. And I couldn’t be more excited about it. The thought of Him out there, being wanted, admired, and adored by someone else, drives me wild. I want Him to experience that. I want Him to feel the thrill of being desired by others, because when He does, He comes back to me so much more confident, so much more dominant. It’s like He’s been recharged—His energy is on a different level, and that’s exactly what turns me on the most.

What really makes me pulse with desire is when I’m there, watching Him in the moment, especially during a threesome. There’s something so sexy about seeing Him caught up in the pleasure of another woman. Watching Him become even more fired up, hearing the sounds of their pleasure, feeling the electricity between us—it’s beyond what I ever imagined. It’s not jealousy, not insecurity—it’s just raw, intense arousal. Watching Him with someone else, seeing how desired He is, only makes me crave Him even more. It deepens my submission, knowing that I’m allowing Him to explore this side of Himself.

And when He comes back to me after those experiences, He’s different. He’s more confident, more powerful, more himself. His energy is just… electric. He’s on fire, and that fire is so damn sexy. The way He takes charge when He’s with me, the way He leads me more fiercely, more intensely—it’s the result of Him feeling wanted, and I get to enjoy the fruits of that energy. I love seeing Him confident, seeing Him in touch with His own desires. It makes our connection even hotter when He’s fully in His power, having experienced the validation and pleasure from another woman.

I love that He’s learning to embrace His full power and masculinity. Watching Him thrive with another woman, watching Him feel desired and wanted—it doesn’t take anything away from me. It adds to everything between us. It makes me want Him more, crave Him more, because I can see how much more confident, more assured He becomes. It’s like He’s been reminded of His own value, and that makes Him even more of the man I adore.

There’s something so incredibly sexy about knowing He can have these experiences and still come back to me with all of that energy, all of that power, all of that confidence. And I love being the one who encourages Him to explore those parts of Himself, to embrace the pleasure He deserves. I don’t just tolerate Him being with other women—I want it. I crave it. It turns me on in ways I didn’t even know were possible. And when He returns to me, recharged and more confident than ever, it only makes our dynamic more intense, more passionate, and more alive.

I’ll be waiting for Him next week, ready to experience Him in all His confidence and power. It’s the sexiest thing in the world to me, and it makes me feel so connected to Him, so much more His. I can’t wait to see how He grows even more from this. Watching Him with other women only makes me love Him deeper, and I wouldn’t change a change.