I'm a single 40s Daddy Dom who's taken a step back from dating for the past year due to a streak of disappointing dating experiences. I was previously dating with intention. I've been into kink since my 20s. Had two 3yr LTRs in my 20s and one 3yr followed closely by a 7yr LTR through my 30s. Last LTR ended during lockdown. Never married, no kids.

Relationships in my 20s were vanilla, relationships in my 30s started off with my romantic partners saying they were into kink, but I think this was something they said because it was what I wanted to hear. They winded up being vanilla and dead beadroom relationships but because I was naive about love being enough, I stayed in those relationships longer than I should have. I'd really like my next relationship to be with somebody who wil enjoy the cuckquen kink with me, believes in marriage and wants to have kids together in the future.

Do any cuckqueans here have any advice on where to find eligible single cuckqueans or how to approach the topic of this kink when dating without giving off an "ick" vibe? I'd like to be upfront and honest about my dating preferences because I don't want to waste anybody's time, and I understand it's a kink that women might be fearful or cautious about discussing.

I was previously on Fet for years but deactivated a couple years ago and have just been on dating apps. I do not engage my local kink community. Thank you in advance for your time and candor.