Hi there

I need advice on how to move forward. My girl and I have been together for about six years. She’s recently discovered a fetish around the CQ community. By recent, I mean within the last year. Not like a week ago. It started out with her having me watch porn when having sex to now me specifically talking bout the other people I want to have sex with. It’s almost every time we have sex now. She’s also made offhand remarks in the middle of previous conversations about how she’d consider letting me have sex with other people.

I am looking to know what to do from here. I don’t want to push this on her if she doesn’t want to take it further than our bedroom. With her off hand remarks and the sex we’ve been having I want to talk to her about it. See if she wants to move any further. I’ve read that starting out with a strip club is a good way to test if she actually is interested in it or if it’s just a fantasy. I also read having a first encounter with an escort is a good idea too. But I also need to know what’s the best way to approach the subject and best way to talk to her.

Thanks in advance.