I (f46) have been married (m47) for 25 years. He is straight and I am biflexible. We began talking about our sexual desires and I admitted that I wanted to see him fuck other women and that it would be a turn on for me to see him fully indulge and completely enjoy himself sexually. I literally crave for another woman to pleasure him until his soul leaves his body. With help from this community, I decided to talk to my friend and she was agreeable, but it did not happen. Her life is changing and I don't know if she wants to continue in this lifestyle. I don't want to ask her about it, but she is the only one my husband trusts and she is my only friend that is in the lifestyle. Even if I make new friends, I don't know if my hubby would be willing. That would take a lot more time. It has been two years and I am losing hope and ready to give up. Does anyone have any suggestions or words of encouragement? Paid sites and lifestyle clubs are not an option.😮💨
Thank you for your words of encouragement. 🥰
Thank you so much for this. We have role played and used porn for my kink, but not in the way you described. He is already open to this, so I think I will try it and do how it works.
Thank you. I brought it up to him, but he informed me that his comfort level would not include strangers. Although, I personally am open to it😋
How exactly does that work. Do couples just post when and where they are going to be?
It's awful. I hope some of the answers the community gave were helpful to you as well.
Thank you. I will talk to him and see if he is interested.
That's a good idea. I don't know what munches are, but I am open to making new friends
Oh! Gotcha! Thank you. I don't think it could be a stranger. His comfort level is friend status.
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He said he wants only the one friend, because we both trust her. I don't think dating apps are his thing. It's a trust issue. You said I should be patient, because it would be worth it. So, I'm wondering if meeting friends and building a relationship would be the best route. Maybe building up trust that way might help, but I just don't know about him. I don't want to invest years into something that is just not going to happen, is all.