I’m a guy, but for me it was my ex. She always noticed girls checkin me out and I know I look alright but didn’t even notice - I can be a clueless dumbass but was really just focused on her. She brought up a FMF threesome but emphasized wanting to watch me aggressively fuck a girl while she watched and eventually be reclaimed with a more intimate encounter between us. She even set up a date to the restaurant a chick worked at who she wanted to watch me with but we broke up before it happened. Still, it planted the seed and it’s grown over the years.

What drove your fetish to this lifestyle and wondering any tips for someone interested in making something like this successful from your experience. I read The Ethical Slut years ago and it was a good primer but I’ve had one other encounter I almost formed a FMF triad but one girl got cold feet.